need help pregnat at 13?

Question

i am pregnat and only 13 i love this boy and he loves me. my parents are very helpful, but i coud use some more help right now

Answer 1

Oh, hunny, I feel so bad for you. You just are going to have to slave the rest of your childhood taking care of that baby. I don't know what to say. How do you know this boy isn't just playing you? How do you he's not gonna leave you? He told you that to get your stuff. If I were you, I would listen to a song called, "S.E.X." by Lyfe Jennings. It is good and has a great moral to it. I don't know why you wanted to do that thing anyway.

Answer 2

Sweetheart you do not yet even know what true love is. So happy to hear that your parents are very helpful because you are still a baby now going to have a baby. You are not prepared mentally emotionally or physically to be a full time mother. This is not slamming you what so ever. You yourself are a child. After this birth please no more babies until your finished with school and some what secure. Good luck and remember babies are not like dolls we cannot place them on a shelf or ignore them because we are too tired, dont feel like it or want to just go out and after all be a kid that we are. Hope your parents are going to play the parental role for now.

Answer 3

Take care of your self, make sure you go to doctor appointments and do everything you can to give birth to a healthy baby. If possible stay in school, even if you have to home school, an education is very important. Sadly now days you can't get very far without a diploma. It's great that your parents are helping you, make sure they know that you appreciate them.

Good luck.

Answer 4

whaaat???? are you crazy?......tsk3x!!! what kind of help do you want? hhhmmm... ok, i'll try my best to help because i really understand you. you know, we're the same age, but i'm not pregnant..hehe. seriously, why did you do that? you know you're not yet mature enough to have a baby, at your age. your organs are not yet well developed. i'm sorry to say this to you but accdng. to my mom, if you get pregnant at an early age, you have a high risk of getting a disease in your sex organ. and you know, you're still young, VERY young. and i nkow, your so-called LOVE feelings for the father of your baby is not mature enough to last until eternity. yeah, that's true. the love you are saying is not deep unlike the adults felt for their partners. i'm not trying to point out your faults.. i understand you. it's just a mistake.. but, don't worry, just seek help from God and He will help you.. He will light your way, He will guide you through your pregnancy and most of all, He will bless your baby. when your baby grows up, you'll be happy. trust me, ok? i hope you are going to appreciate what i said. don't be afraid to face other people, instead, be proud because your baby is a gift from God and at the same time, it's a big challenge to you if you're going to be a very good mother in the future.if others will criticize you because you get pregnant at an early age, so what? tell them you are blessed by God for having a baby in your womb. so, once again..just a Goodluck wish for you. and i hope the father of your baby will not leave you and he will love you forever. JUST PRAY ALWAYS. (^^,)

Answer 5

first off u shouldnt be having sex at 13. but now that u already have and r pregnant i feel for u. i got pregnant at 14 and had my son at 15. i shouldnt have had sex then but too late. anyway its gonna be hard because ur still a kid. just be thankful ur parents r helping. and i wouldnt count on ur bf being there forever cuz hes still a kid. its gonna be hard but if u have help that will make it a little easier. not much but a little. but that baby will be the best thing in ur life. good luck and if u need to talk just let me know. i know how hard it is having a baby at a young age.

Answer 6

hey gurl i 13 2 i dont think having sex was da right thing for you your still young like me but here is some advice take some deep breaths,tell your man you are very young and tell him that next time think before what we do,talk things out befro having sex and remember you'll be all right but having this child will be very tough.

_ good luch with this child of yours and his

_ Tiffany of rochester ny

Answer 7

Well no one really can help you now. You should have asked for help before having sex at 13.

Answer 8

You need to consider all of your options at this point. It's great that your parents are supportive of you.

Answer 9

You'll be ok... you'll have the wonderfully blessed opportunity to give & receive a lot of love & joy, by being a mommy.

Answer 10

I think that you should have wait. its great that your parents are helpful, but think more about your future and how you're parents can't always be there for you.