He twirls his dick with his legs spread out, knowing me an my brother are there, wouldn't tell us about anything about the "talk", calls me a pig for eating so much (hey, I have a high metabolism, so I can get rid of fat too easily and he knows it), cusses me out, smokes at home and in the car when I'm home. This all disgusts and pizzes me off. I'm starting tohate my ethnicity for this sorry ***'es behavior. I want too kill him, since I HATE him soo MUCH.Is there any help i can get. Thanks and I just need to release all this confidentionally. P.s. Do you think he has enough balls to twirl his dick while i'm doing homework in his room on the computer and not tell me about the talk"?
2006-11-04 13:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wouldn't this be called abuse, and better yet dysfunctional family?
I mean I feel psychollogically hurt and he sometimes whacks me in the arm lightly.
2006-11-04 13:22:35 · update #1
Can I call the police on him for battery? When he smokes in the house, does that constitue for battery?
2006-11-04 13:25:22 · update #2
My brother even somewhat cares about him; He asks where did he go and when I told him I wanted to call the police on my father, he said don't. Is it even possible that my brother can one day grow up to be a sexual predator?
2006-11-04 13:29:58 · update #3
You and your brother HAVE to call the police and report everything that this person has been and still is doing to you and your brother.
No matter how much you say you hate this terrible person you must never talk about killing him or you will become as bad as he is and you are not a bad person but a victim of abuse.
My heart goes out to you and your brother for having this creep as a father. No one should ever have to live the way you kids are living and I beg you to call the police now and not wait another minute either. The police will place the two of you in a safe place away from the abuse and it will be up to you and your brother to testify against this creep to make sure he's put away and won't harm you or anyone again.
Take care and don't wait another minute to call the police either.
2006-11-04 14:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all well done for going with your gut feeling and realising this is not a good situation for you to be in. Your brother will love him and possibly he doesnt see the behaviour as wrong as he doesnt know of any other way to live and he sees it as acceptable. Go through the channels of getting help safely and i would advise you to go to a counsellor wether it be at school or elsewhere...someone you feel comfortable in talking to that has authority, that can help you. Best of luck and remember anything you do do make sure its safe for you and your bro
2006-11-04 13:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call the cops or tell someone at school. I believe this is emotional abuse. And yes, he is a sorry excuse for a father. By the way, where is your mom?
2006-11-04 15:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by mAnGa_LvR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a version of homer simpson or al bundy.
runs around in his underwear, has his hand down his pants, berates the wife and kids,
lewd and crude, drinks, bad example, etc.
is he in charge of nuclear reactor safety or a shoe salesman, or maybe a little of both.
i'm not sure if calling the cops will make things better or worse.
calling the cops will definitely not solve all of your problems, and may create new ones. be careful.
2006-11-04 14:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sopwith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! Call the police. The sooner you do so, the better. The fool needs to be thrown into the slammer, and the key MUST BE DESTROYED.
2006-11-04 13:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should call the cops. This is abuse and you should do something about it because if you don't you probably will regret it.
2006-11-04 13:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by sher_sher_light 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 07:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to call child family services or the police or tell someone at school and let them call for you.
2006-11-04 13:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your being abused you need to report it,my question is,why haven't you yet? Is any of this true?Is this your way of cracking a joke?It's not funny at all if it is.
2006-11-04 14:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to call welfare and tell them whats going on. yes this is abuse. physical, mental and sexual. even if he isnt touching u. u need to get help and get away from him. does ur mother know about this, where is she when he does this? u and ur brother need to get away from him.
2006-11-04 13:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋