There is a guy at my play practice who is really nice and cute. He's one of the leads, and I'm in the chorus. We are in a lot of scenes together. I've known him for a few years now from previous plays, but it's been a really long time since I've seen him last. He's a year older than me- I'm fifteen, he's sixteen. We go to different schools. I really wanna be closer to him, but he has so many people around him all the time and I am kind of reserved (always with my two friends there). Any ideas? We all already have each other email's and numbers, so I can't ask him for either. Any advice or suggestions are loved. I don't know if I should just hang back and let him come to me, but do you think he ever will? We talk when we can- it's never awkward of anything. Sometimes we catch each other's eye and then we both look away. But I don't know if that's just coincidence.
I know I have posted this a few times, but it's hard to get good advice. I'm also self-concious... just thought I would say
2006-11-04 13:20:28 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To get the guy your going to get out of your shell. If you can't go up and ask him with all of his friends around then send him an email. To me he has given it to you for a reason! Good Luck!
2006-11-04 13:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your two friends for help, they can probably do the most for you. Otherwise, I'd say that you should email him, and maybe ask if you can hang out some time, not like a date or anything, just as friends. Get to know him more before you start thinking about going out with him. .
Good luck! I hope this helps!
2006-11-04 13:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Becca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy really likes you, he will ask you out. Its pretty obvious he doesnt but not because your not attractive but because he does not know you that well to like you. What you can do is make yourself visible (By trying to look pretty) everytime you guys have practice and never fail to smile and look at him in the eye when you do. Thats the only way i could think of to make him notice you. Try to talk to him more too:) Give it a while :-)
2006-11-04 13:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are dumb. they'll never know if you like them unless you give them signs. ;)
the trick is to not be too obvious and annoying. also, you are going to want to try to catch him alone whenever possible. guys are much better one on one than in groups. other guys around can act like morons and other girls around can get jealous and mean and then talk about you behind your back.
anyway, my advice is to try to talk to him as much as you can and then suggest a casual outing with a couple of your friends and his friends. maybe see if they all want to go to the movies or something... movies are great because there is a lot of time that you dont have to speak. but you can sit next to him! <-- key!
oh and pick a horror movie and jump when there are the scary parts. he'll probably notice and think its cute and try to comfort you. (works 89% of the time). :)
good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-07 13:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg this is exactly what happend to me alittle while ago.
i had a "relationship" that lasted a couple months with this popular guy from my church, AND i had a crush on him for 3 years, and i am shy
long story on how it happend and ended, but to sum it up, we started talking ALOT and started hanging around eachother at church.
then we were in love with eachother on a youth trip to orlando
so thats my advce, talk to him alot, i mean don't get all annying and call him everyday, but a couple times a week
edit- maybe will will get to be confortable enough to tell him that you like him
i did that
2006-11-04 13:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should start calling him or sending him emails. just be like hey just wanted to say hi so whats up??? or something along that lines and just build up a relationship with him and once it gets really personal have one of your friends ask him out for you or maybe he will just ask you out. either way it should work out. and maybe even ask him out on a date to the movies or something like that. that always gets a guy. all the guys i know think its very bold of a girl to make the first move. it always impresses them. majorly impresses them.
2006-11-04 13:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 13:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by putz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it can work. My relationship with me and my gf is that I'm really shy, and she's always talking (don't mean that negatively :-)
2006-11-04 13:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him more often and tell him that you feel something for him.
2006-11-04 13:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by HOT- LATINA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's in high school theater he's gay. Forget it and move on.
2006-11-04 13:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by DjStabMasterArson 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋