Frst thing: I like this guy i'll call J and he told me he didnt like me...so I accepted that..and we became good acquaintances but on his birthday he told me he didnt want to be friends but one day he was on my msn and now we still talk and are well friends. My sister doesn't know I'm still talking to him but she knows about the not wanted to be friends stuff. Should I stay being his friend and should i tell him my sis doesn't know? or should i tell my sister that?
Second thing: I like this guy i'll call J.J. and he flirts with me and if friendly but then I saw him with a girl they were holding hands so obvisouly they're together but he still flirts...and trys to get closer to me..I think he either doesn't know he's flirting or he likes me more..or he's a player...what do you think?
2006-11-04 13:16:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk about it on ym forum and get some answers
2006-11-04 13:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay... wait...
okay with the first problem, I wouldn't mess with him only because he likes to play little games. JUst tell him "look do you wanna be friends or not because one time you tell me u wanna be friends the next time you don't wanna be friends but then you talkin to me" Just ask him what's going on and most likely he'll tell you something you may not have known. why should ur sister care that's ur business it shouldn't matter whether you tell her or not.
for the second problem, that guy isn't your boyfriend to begin with so it shoudn't really matter if he's holding a girl's hand. if it really concerns you than you should just ask him and if that was his girlfriend then you should back off and if he still flirts with you then you know he's a player.
2006-11-04 21:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ms_Apple_Bttmz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer for first thing: What's the big deal about your sis not knowing? You should tell her if you want to, but if you don't want her to know she doesn't have to.
Answer for second thing: You can either test the guy (flirt back, ask him on a double date, ect. Play around with him), or you can just ask him.
Good luck!
2006-11-04 21:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Becca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first guy is a butthole and for saying he didn't like you is really mean!
The second guy is different. Lots of guys flirt without knowing it. So just keep watching him.
2006-11-04 21:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whay does you sister have to do with J? JJ is a player. Just focus on school.
2006-11-04 21:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just 2 easy stop stickin ur legs in the air, play hard to get, like he wants you to cuz if ur easy on ur back with legs out high, hell have fun once and never come back
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2006-11-04 21:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by sionsolo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should ask shorter questions.
2006-11-04 21:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Coolfunnygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya nice
2006-11-04 21:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by MR.COLD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋