Even when I lookin my worst, men say I'm s e x y.
Like for instance, today, while working a long hard day, one of my guests at the hotel that I work at told me I was s e x y. I don't have low self esteem, but I don't see it. Is something wrong with me?
2006-11-04 12:17:14 · 11 answers · asked by Nessy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't have to brag or be vain. I'm speaking the truth.
2006-11-04 13:54:28 · update #1
Sometimes what we see of ourselves in the mirror doesn't always reflect how others see us. Your overall attitude, appearance, and how you carry yourself can add to the list of things we don't see in the mirror. If you are labeled as SEXY, you should be feeling that everything is alright.
2006-11-04 12:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry E88turbocpe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My , my, this is an easy one....If they keep telling you you're sexy...guess what? they've got S-E-X on their mind! And by them saying, " you're sexy" they've implanted the seed in your brain...sex...sex...sexy! Perhaps you're dressing sexy...you shouldn't be if you're at work. I guarantee ..."you're sexy" is not the highest compliment you can get ...the TRUTH is the guys that are telling you that are most probably saying it to at least 90% of the other women they see. They are seeing you as a sex object...and that's the truth! There are many ways a gentleman, nice guy will compliment you. They will smile when they See you..they will say hi ! it's so nice to see you. you look great.... I like your hair that way...etc...etc...etc...the men/ pigs who are referring to you in a sexy way it's really not appropriate ! And in their perverted minds they are hoping to get into your sexy pants! The only thing that's wrong with you is: if you can't see past their bogus compliment..unless of course you want to be viewed as a sex object---Next time they say you look sexy think of all the other girls / women who are feelin just sooooo fine because Oh goody another man thinks I'm sexy! Wouldn't YOU rather be respected for more than that?
2006-11-04 20:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it from the other perspective: when you see a guy that you think is sexy, is it always because of something like how his hair looks that day, or what clothes he's wearing...or is it often about something less tangible, something he emanates from within? That is probably what these men are picking up from you. Be happy about it!
2006-11-04 20:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Tiny T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ta your funny take it as your hot. My life would be so much eaisier if people said that to me everyday. Well no nothing is wrong with you.
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2006-11-04 20:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Holly S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they can still see the real you even when you think your looking bad
2006-11-04 20:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by why us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we just dont see what you girls see as "ugly"
we only see the obvious, not how your shoes bring out you eyes
2006-11-04 20:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your just showing off.
2006-11-04 20:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a complament.
2006-11-04 20:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by R C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you dont have to be cute to have sex appeal, you can be at your worst and have sex appeal sweetie, so if you have sex appeal it can been regardless of your current appearance
2006-11-04 20:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try modeling.
2006-11-04 20:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋