my bf broke up with me about two weeks ago.. we broke up because he said we fought too much and i made him wait for things..he says he was happy in the relationship without the arguments and problems. he said he still loved me the day we broke up..two days after the break up we stopped arguing and just started talking to each other normally about our days. well i asked him to hang out this weekend just as friends and he says "i dont know..maybe" i havent talked to him for 2 days because everyone is telling me to NOT call or text him. so i haven't but he hasn't called me either..is it because it's the weekend and he's busy with friends??
i know he is a great person deep down but his friends arent helping considering the fact i just found out that his friends talk about me behind my back to my other friends.
what can i do to make him realize what he lost and make him realize how much he cares..i know he does..he's just holding it in
2006-11-04 12:15:19 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him time to miss you. If he doesn't miss you then you HAVE to move on and find someone that is worth your time.
2006-11-04 12:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by purple rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are in denial of what is really going on.
Sometimes it just doesnt work out bf/gf. Sometimes two people are better off friends or not friends. Let it go. Reject feels bad but it is only for the moment. Take note of this, the more you think of him the harder it will be to live your life sane. Have some good clean fun. Enjoy life.
2006-11-04 20:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be avoiding the situation to get some closure to the relationship and to move on. It also doesn't sound like his friends are helping the cause.
2006-11-04 20:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not so sure he's into you.
Find someone who makes you happy ... and is wiling to "wait for things" as you put it.
Stay beautiful.
Ciao, bella
2006-11-04 20:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by Faye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bout you just move on, it is not worth your time if all you do is argue.
2006-11-04 20:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋