am going out of my mind, i want to end my relationship because it is not going anywhere, why am I so scared? what am I going to do?
I have a bf but dont see him except once or twice a month. He lives 300 miles away, am attached to him, I feel am always interrupting his life, but mine is empty, and i want him in it. just dont know how !!
He is not trying, am supposed to do everything, sell my house, move to another state, find a new job................ Please inspire me
to do the right thing.......... I feel am in prison to someone i dont even spend time with, am single and successful....what is wrong with me ??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-04 12:15:10 · 5 answers · asked by Mx2 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should let him know that you do not feel like he is putting enough effort into the relationship and if he doesn't want to make it work that you are going to have to move on. It is not fair to you. You will have to be brave but letting yourself be independent could be the best thing for you. Spend more time with friends and family to help you deal with the change and get involved in a new hobby or something you enjoy to help you meet more new people!
2006-11-04 12:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Z Driver, first of all if you are feeling this stressed out now...imagine how you would feel if you were actually with him! You are scared of being alone is what it comes down to, and that is normal. You don't see him enough to maintain a healthy relationship, and if you feel you are interrupting his life that is definately a red flag!!! You cannot count on him to fill your life. You must be complete before you can expect someone to fill your void. Believe me I learned that the hard way. It is so hard to let go and it is going to take awhile trust me, but it sounds like you have a lot going for you if you are successful. And nothing is wrong with you it is normal to want someone in your life to want someone to share you time with but I really think that this situation is bringing you down more than you know. Find someone closer to home, you are worth it girl and will feel much better once you find someone to share more time with. They say the best thing for an old love is a new one....good luck and be strong!
2006-11-04 20:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by One Of The Girls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey...What is wrong with you?????.......You are answering your own question......YOu feel you are in prison......****....you aint even with him....Baby go make yourself a life.....he obviously has.....You can make it without him....The only thing I would sell is the map to wherever the hell he is.......
Life is too short to waste on anything you aren't sure in your heart about.....and God knows your heart is running from this........Listen to your instincts.....THEY will take you to a safe place......You know what you should do....So..go ahead and do it...........END THE RELATIONSHIP !!!!!
oKAY i VALIDATED YOUR FEELINGS....GO OUT AND FIND WHAT YOU REALLY NEED......Always listen to your gut feelings......they come for a reason!!.....And if you don't....well get ready to learn some kinda hard lesson....
YOU GO GIRL
2006-11-04 20:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lrn'dTheHardWay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok calm down and get rid of his ***, cause if you dont trust me, im a psycologist,you'll end up somewhere doing something that you REALLY DONT WANT, or possibly dead...
2006-11-04 20:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by 约瑟夫 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not u it's hime y can't he move where u r?
2006-11-04 20:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. San 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋