First of all im not aloud to date and second if I was I only like the guy as a friend and I like sombody else anyway. But the piont is I want to say no with out herting his fealings and I realy want to stay friends with this guy I dont now wat i would do with out him!PLEAS HELP!!!!!!!
2006-11-04 12:10:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you dont tell him that you are not interested he will continue to think that he has a chance, so just saying I am not allowed to date wont cut it here. Be honest, and if he cant deal with it that is his problem. He will learn someday that you cant just say, "I like you so you have to go out with me" and it happens.
Oh and you may as well get that idea of not being able to live without someone out of your head, cos you will be losing a lot of people through the course of your life.
2006-11-04 12:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the best ways to say no to a date is to be like "I only think of you as a friend. We have been friends for so long and I wouldn't want to ruin the bond you and I have." OR say something like "Sorry, but I don't feel the same way."
2006-11-04 12:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by cheeze 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok you have answered your own question. Your very first sentence is your out! I used it all the time as a teenager. I am sorry my parents don't allow me to date yet! Soooo easy!!! Then he knows it is not your fault and tell him gently if I were allowed I know we would have a great time....
2006-11-04 12:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by One Of The Girls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank you but I am only interested in being friends with you, besides, I am not aloud to date.
2006-11-04 12:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Keanu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your situation about not being able to date yet. Let him know that you've not thought about him in the more than friends way and you'd rather stay that way.
2006-11-04 12:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Steph L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can ever do is be direct and say no that you are not interested in dating him cause you dont like him in that way. Friends yes, but boyfriend no. It is the only way, NO
2006-11-04 12:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I value your friendship so much and I would hate to lose you as a friend, but I am interested in someone else. you mean the world to me and I think you are a lifelong friend to me. can we just keep it as that? I really love you as a friend, just not a boyfriend.
2006-11-04 12:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by outtahere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest but gentle. If he really is a friend he will be OK with it. If he has a problem with it and won't be a Friend anymore, that means he wanted more and is not a true friend then.
2006-11-04 12:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him your going through a tough time right now and a relationship would just make things worse lets just stay friends for now. just as long as when you say no you give him a little hope for the future hill be fine.
2006-11-04 12:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by dustinr91 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest. You aren't allowed to date. Who knows, by the time you are allowed, you may find you feel differently
2006-11-04 12:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by SoCalBeachGal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋