hes presuring me to do it with him without protection. what should i do..
2006-11-04 12:09:19 · 57 answers · asked by campinconn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him if he's prepared to have a child
2006-11-04 12:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by frammie2002 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him over for the Day (possibly on the Weekend) and set a romantic lunch and probably a touch to drink then take lean in for a kiss in case your fortunate issues would get somewhat too far and bring about sex in spite of the indisputable fact that if not be instantly with and say shall we've sex
2016-11-28 19:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by klosterman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your life right now. Are you happy? Are you finished with school? Do you want to travel and experience life? Think of everthing you want out of life; now think about how hard it would be if you got pregnant or got an std. He must want a child if he is trying to have un protected sex. If you really care about him and want to have sex then you tell him to use protection. If he does not want to then you tell him no! Don't let him use love as an excuse. If his feeling for you are real he will respect your wishes! If he fools around on you or threatens you then you don't need him find a real man!
2006-11-04 12:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by brian_gros_j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do? Decide what you want and do that.
Protection means different things to different people. No protection means you know you are both free of diseases and are ready to have children together.
If he's uncomfortable with condoms, there are a variety of other birth-control option available. There's even some options using condoms depending on what he doesn't like about them.
It's your body. Him pressuring you is nowhere near good enough reason to do something you might regret. Your boundries are important, if he can't respect that - you should find somebody else.
Odd
2006-11-04 12:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by OddSavant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your boyfriend is presuring you to have sex with him without protection, just kick him to the curb. If he tries to rape you stay away from him as much as possible. He isn't worth probably making a mistake inside of you, getting you pregnant.
2006-11-04 12:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by cheeze 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it because your health is your # priority. Once you compromise it, you can't know what to expect. Besides pregnancy, there are many STDs out there. You are a woman and you are responsible for the decisions you make...you are responsible for taking care of yourself if you do get an STD, you are responsible for taking care of yourself if you get pregnant, and you are responsible for raising your child right if you have a child. Your decision would be your responsibility and you would have to carry the weight. So, think hard if you want to have unprotected sex (love or unsure love) because a man that loves you would love ALL of you and eventually learn to understand your decisions. Think it through, you should never be pressured into doing something you don't want to do.
2006-11-04 12:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by tinucoker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "my future husband is so important to me, that I want to give him something special....me." Tell him you are not ready to have a baby and neither is he, obviously. This is very selfish and immature behavior on his part.
Unprotected sex could have serious consequences that will fall primarily on your shoulders. Imagine telling your family that you have symptoms of an STD, or that you suspect you are pregnant. Imagine being pregnant and giving birth in your present circumstance.
Maybe you could look for someone who cares for who you are, and not only for your body with nothing to impede his personal pleasure. This guy does not love you.
You can do better, I encourage you to do so. Soon!
Peace be with you!
2006-11-04 12:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by Annamaria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all do not go ahead with it unless you want to, this is an important decision for you. Second you should most certainly get protection first before having sex unless you want to risk getting pregnant or catching something.
You probably love your boyfriend and / or want to please him but he does not love you if he is pushing you to do something you are not ready for, stand your ground here, you know in your heart what you want.
2006-11-04 12:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sam k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him:
what do he want for father's day?
Is ready to start saving money to buy his child a car, money for college, cellphone, etc.
People need to stop treating sex like a joke and wake up! Dump the guy if he is stupid enough to request such a careless activity.
2006-11-08 11:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, you are obviously not comfortable with. It's not safe for you to do that, you don't want a disease, nor unplanned pregnancy. I am not saying either of you are gross or anything, but you never know what the person is doing when they aren't around you. Do what's right for you, don't let him pressure you. If he cares about you, then he will respect you. If he can't, then let him go.
2006-11-04 12:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loves you he would wait till you're ready. As far as having sex without protection, NEVER let that happen! I have a feeling you are smarter than that. He may want to get you pregnant so you will be tied to him forever. If he keeps pressuring you, please dump him and get out while the gettings good!
2006-11-04 12:14:06 · answer #11 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋