I have a lot of confidence in myself, and believe in myself its just that I dont believe girls are supposed to ask boys out. There is this boy in my class, who sits next to me, hes cute, funny, handsome, and he laughs at all my jokes. I really like him a lot. (by the way I am 14). Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me out?
2006-11-04 12:01:20 · 14 answers · asked by Brengirl112 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do it......
2006-11-04 12:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First you go up to him and start talking about things before you get into the real deal.When that time comes you have to say," Do you want to go to Starbucks,'' or something like that. If he says no don't act sad or anything just be yourself. If he sees you like that he might feel bad for you and go with you, remember if he doesn't really want to go with you you're in trouble later.The next day you talk to him get more sense of who he is then go into the matter. Do not try to ask the first day. It will turn out bad. While you're asking him be confident. If he doesn't want to go with you that's his problem. And always, always talk to a friend when something happens it works trust me! Best of Luck! Hope it turns out well.
2006-11-04 12:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by rockergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys at that age are often clueless when it comes to dating. If you wait for him to get around to asking you,you could be waiting a long time. The idea of women asking guys on a date is not considered the taboo it once was. Ask him out ,the worst that can happen is he will say no. But there are a lot of guys who will say yes!
2006-11-04 12:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by mopjky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best way to go about this is just to be casual about it. Don't say "hey do you want to go out on a date with me?" That could create to much pressure and if he says no you will feel worse. So I would suggest asking if he just wants to hang out or do something sometime. He is less likely to say no if it is just a casual thing and then if you have fun together maybe you will end up going out more and before you know it you could be dating eachother! Good luck!
2006-11-04 12:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well just make yourself feel comfortable around him. Make it at the right time when u 2 are alone. Dont just walk up to him when hes all talking to a bunch of guys. Just ask him if u 2 can talk alone. Thats the right time.
2006-11-04 12:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he could be afraid of asking you he could be afraid you will reject him guys don't like that any more then girls do you could always say you want to take me out don't you or just ask him if he would like to go to a movie or something it is OK for a girl to ask a guy either that or you can sit there and wonder about it
2006-11-04 12:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were to wait, he may be saying the same thing! Why not make it seem like you take intrest in him. Why not have like a big activity with all of your friends and invite him, when everyone is there then talk to him for a little bit!
2006-11-04 12:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait 4 him 2 ask u
2006-11-04 12:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by jfm427 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's bad for a girl to ask a guy out, but if you really want to then you should just go for it....good luck!!!
2006-11-04 12:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't wait for someone else to do it... its OK for you to ask him first he maybe be even more shy then you and may never ask. you want know till you try
2006-11-04 12:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should do it because he might be a shy guy and would never ask you out
2006-11-04 12:04:36 · answer #11 · answered by Wendy 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋