2006-11-04 11:58:12 · 8 answers · asked by Sarabeara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow i know that's got to be difficult for you. i think you definitely need to talk to each of them separately and make sure that they know that it upsets you when they "flirt" with one another. He should stop if he knows it upsets you and he cares about you, and she should if she is your best friend.
Give them a chance, but also don't read too deeply into the issue. Obviously, a boyfriend and a best friend are definitely going to be in your lives and want an active part in it. It would be nice to know that they can get along as well. If it actually does continue and intensifies, then you have to do what's right for you, and that probably means moving on from one or both of them. I hope it doesn't come to that for you. Good luck, and stay strong mama!
2006-11-04 12:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Adelie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably don't like each other in the "romantic" sense but being as they are both close to you they probably are friends. Nothing wrong with that or the little firtations of friendships. Be thankful they like each other this way you don't have to dump one in order to be with the other.
2006-11-04 12:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont trust that because you only flirt with somone that close to your gal if you do like them. The fact that he does it is wrong and the fact that she allows it is even more wrong.
2006-11-04 12:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry too much. My b/f flirts with my friends, its never gone anywhere. I'd be more worried if he was doing it behind my back. As long as you trust him, there should be no problems :)
2006-11-04 12:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by SexyLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if that is how he is ofcourse they might be seeing eachother--dump him! Find another guy! Who will treat you better and a friend that will ignore him! Here 2 help! Good luck!
2006-11-04 12:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably sneaking behind your back. Drop them both
2006-11-04 12:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by latietee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it matters, is your bff is hotter than u?
2006-11-04 12:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they prolly do and you are the reason they want say it out loud... not yet anyways...
2006-11-04 12:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋