i just met a guy im deadly in love with or something and i cant stop thinking about him all the time and i caught him looking at me once and it made my heart melt and his smile is infectious and i get nervous around him and blabber my big fat stupid mouth offffffff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i like this guy a ton and if i dont snare this dude im gonna live in agony until im like old and crinkly and i lean over and friggin die!!!!!!! help!!!!!!!!! ten points up for grabs pplz, lets take atvantage of it here......
2006-11-04 11:55:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh god, all your guys advice is great, i wish could choose all u guys for best answer, but i think i attempted to tell him straight out i like him id wind up barfing on him and everyone that knows him is a flabbermouth so inevtiably if i ask about him he will know and look at me like im weird which i absolutly am, so i guess it doesnt make much of a difference, true love here i come, hope im not too much of a regular dumby like i usually am........
2006-11-04 12:14:23 · update #1
Do your research! Find out all that you can about him. Develop the same interests as him. Find ways to share these same interests. Also (without being obvious) impress upon him that you are in demand with the opposite sex. Show no real interest in those demands, but if he offers "interest" be the" carrot in front of the horse", just out of reach-yet obtainable. Once you know that you have him hooked, reel him in...he's yours.
2006-11-04 12:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by dr.cocktail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eloquent speech isn't everything to a guy. Most guys will become just as tongue-tied when confronted with a girl they like. It's just natural.
What really attracts me to a girl is if she is genuinely nice. She has to have a strong intellect, high ethical standards, and a friendly personality. Basically, just be a nice person, and he should take notice. If he doesn't, he's not good enough for you.
2006-11-04 11:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by temporos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten points here for the wanting- Just simply tell him honestly how you feel. I'm a guy, and I would be Flattered to death if a girl told me I was hot, and wanted me!!! So, he'll be happy you made the first move.
2006-11-04 12:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a weak man would want a weak woman.
Be self-confident and self assured w/o being cocky, arrogant or vain.
Be pretty w/o being high maintenance.
Be independent but not bossy
Be honest about who you are
Any man worth having will honor you for you - not what he wants you to be
2006-11-04 12:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has shown an interest then just find a reason to ask him out and just do it. Sometimes guys need a woman who can be direct. Good Luck!
2006-11-04 11:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear something a little revealing, like a low cut top and a short skirt, or tight jeans and a tight sweater, but first how do you know he doesn't already have somebody special in his life? or do you care about that?
2006-11-04 12:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by connie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you see him loooking at you, hold his gaze and flash a flirty smile! then talk to him later.. it worked 4 me! i now have a bf 4 about 1 and half months still goin strong
2006-11-04 11:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by The Lovely Ladies of Soccer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try n be a lil calmer around him and let him know you like him suddley and if he still doesnt get the hint straight up tell him...
2006-11-04 12:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by 约瑟夫 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here is the deal...be yourself...if that is not good enough it is not good enough. If you try to be something you are not he will figure that out...
2006-11-04 11:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i guess we laugh alot i have noticed i do that all the time
lol
2006-11-04 11:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by irishchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋