I care about him very much, and we really want a future together. However, he has a career that requires him to be gone for 10-15 weeks at a time. I am very unhappy with this situation, usually find myself having crazy mood swings, and sometimes I wind up casually dating other people, on the sly just becaus I am lonely. I don't know if I should just walk away, and try to find happiness elsewhere, or if it's worth trying to find a way to be okay with this if it means a marriage and a family with my very best friend and confidant (also the best lover I have ever had.)
2006-11-04 11:55:13 · 6 answers · asked by nycgirl2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one in a committed relationship winds up casually dating other people. You need to get yourself to therapy and figure out why you have these moods swings before you end up destroying your relationship. Looking for happiness elsewhere is no answer. You will not find it. The problem is with you.
2006-11-04 12:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that marriage and a family will change how you feel about your partner being away for extended periods of time? It is hard to love someone and be disconnected with them for 10 to 15 weeks imagine how low you will feel if you have an infant to care for as well. If you stay in the relationship you already know what to expect and if you leave you have no idea what the future will bring. Which is more painful for you?
2006-11-04 20:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're dating other guys when this guy you SUPPOSEDLY care about then you don't care about him as much as you say you do and therefore should NOT marry this guy. Give him a break, spring him loose and let him find a girl who will be totally faithful to him and not date on the sly when he is gone. He doesn't deserve to be used and treated the way you treat him.
2006-11-04 19:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
made here fell tite down so here was to try thoter gils here made like so here come back to you so you should go out with other gug see if is good has your boy friend ypour just hang with your girl fi rends than you wont be so longer you will things to do
2006-11-04 20:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by DIANE E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is having an affair 2 becuz he is also lonely. tell him he needs to choose between u and his traveling job. u luv him, and if he luvs u, he'll choose u ovr his dumb *** job that got u in this mess.
2006-11-04 19:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by J@YDI$$L3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should support him get anoher job
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2006-11-04 19:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋