to be strait up -
ive been doing lines of cocaine before we go inside the club.
i do it once and a while only when im out on the town and so far its not an addcited habit. only do it with a certain 'crew' im with.
my question is if you had a boyfriend and you cared for him alot and you found out he was secretly doing cocaine when he went out, how would this affect you?
2006-11-04 11:41:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would leave him in a heartbeat
2006-11-04 11:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by R C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be over before it even began. I would also begin a relentless campaign to get him off cocaine.
Sorry, but I've seen the terrible damage "recreational" drug use can do to people.
The fact that it is being kept secret shows how you really feel about it. The fact that you say it is "so far" not an addiction shows that you know it has the potential to become more serious.
2006-11-04 20:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh it would affect me. I would be furious. Number one - it is really easy to say it's not a habit, but it can become that way without you knowing or being able to acknowledge it.
I used to date a guy that did it, and he was a whole different person. I don't know how serious your relationship is, but if it's past the puppy dog phase, it's her business. A lot of people would not want to be exposed to that nor would they want to be around that kind of lifestyle.
You should consider trying to get past this. If you say you're not addicted, then stop. If your friends have a problem with it, they're not your friends.
2006-11-04 19:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there before and it started out for a few months maybe more as just fun and then it turned into something more than just fun and I had to stop altogether. So, based on this experience I would think he was a little unstable or unfullfilled or just needed to grow up a bit and I would probably break up with him. Unless of course, that was where I was at, also. Then I would feel fine with it.
2006-11-04 19:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a family of drug abuse, it would really make me angry. But I think that you could expec that from any girl. Trust is the foundation of any relationship and by keeping this from her, you have violated that trust. The worst case scenario is that she will leave you, but if she cares too much about you to do that, she will probably insist that you get help. Reguardless of what happens you should get help. Your biggest priority right now should not be whether or not your girlfriend will dump you, but that are involved in very dangerous behavior. Good luck and god bless.
2006-11-04 19:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would affect me alto because it is really against my values and i wouldn't be able to look at you the same way. i would also be heart broken if i didn't already no and would make me wonder what else i don't know about you.
i personally wouldn't date a guy who does any type of drug because it could eventually lead to an accident from a car wreck to you hurting someone else. also don't do it just because your friends are doing it because eventually you will become addicted and your pretending to be something that your not
2006-11-04 19:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by murrae r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....uhhh i really don't like guys who do drugs because the drugs help them to b outgoing and so i would wonder if they're still fun without drugs...but i would just stop it now that it's not that bad....and it would greatly affect me cuz that stuff screws u up mentally and physically and maybe the guy becomes aggressive and it all leads to bad things
so yah...
I suggest u stop doing it now that u still have a chance
2006-11-04 19:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump him b/c anyone who uses cocain is a loser and i wouldnt waste my time with one. && if i were you i wouldnt hang out with that so called 'crew' of yours because thats just pretty lame
2006-11-04 19:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by tedious_intricate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't tell my your not addicted, the one line the first time made you a coke-head. Get a life.
Get away from him, maybe that's your problem.
2006-11-04 19:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him...but it doesn't matter to anybody because no one is smart enough to get a grip. I hate to be a ***** about it, but sh!t like that leads to more and more sh!t, and it's completely idiotic. I wouldn't want to put myself so low like that, for drugs, for money, for fun. It's absolutely ridiculous.
2006-11-04 19:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would effect me because right after i found out i would be single in like .24 seconds!
2006-11-04 19:42:56 · answer #11 · answered by ♥♥♥♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋