I've been a little depressed and I feel unatractive and unwanted by guys. I know this is a terrible way to feel but I can't get over the feeling. Please help me.
2006-11-04 10:58:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, every woman has gone through this before in life... at least I think so. Ive found that yeah it does take time for me to get over a person but as soon as I do and become myself again someone else comes along that is better looking and has a better personality. Dating should be an experiance that you learn from...take the things that you done and the things that the other person done and figure out what things you want in a mate. Also take the time to think about what that person could have done better and what you could have done better and try to apply it to the next relationship. For example you may have not communicated effectively in the last one....so in the next one try to communicate better. Get rid of the baggage now, dont judge the next person from the last persons mistake! Its all a learning experiance....belive me and the pain that you are going through only makes you stronger!!!! Love yourself there isnt anything wrong with you just keep going-there's something better in the future!!! I promise! Just be strong!!!!
2006-11-04 11:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by NC christian classy lady!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel depressed over the break up. Maybe you should take yourself out for the works... new hairdo, makeover and spend some money on an outfit. That always makes a girl feel better! Don't forget new shoes!
2006-11-04 11:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get dressed up and look as good as you can then go about your normal routine like the grocery store, errands etc. and notice how many looks you get. Don't forget to smile.
Then go after his friends or guys he can't stand. This always made me feel better when I was single.
Remember the best revenge is to live well!
2006-11-04 11:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by lakecity21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you still have the feeling that your missing him that you feel alone without him. Have you been feeling kinda alone or lonely, or like you need to do something then, maybe you miss him and you need to get back with him. But if you're just distracted in the situation that happend then maybe you should stay focused on what's going on around you. Goodluck!
2006-11-04 11:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Zashtaquir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If issues start to bypass everywhere in a greater severe direction, clarify (for HIS benefit, no longer yours!) approximately your stress, and so forth. Then enable him decide for. That way he won't in any respect experience led on. I dated a bipolar female for a on an analogous time as, and she or he harm me particularly undesirable; regardless of if, I knew that replaced right into a threat getting in, so it did no longer difficulty me that a lot.
2016-10-15 09:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by grabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a little pick me up, go out with your girlfriends, get out, go shopping, window shop if you can't afford anything. Good Luck.
2006-11-04 11:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact u posted this shows me u have a sweet and kind heart :) cheer up and go find a guy u like, i bet u are very attractive and he will like u too :)
2006-11-04 11:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that even though it didnt work out with him you will find someone else just believe in yourself and it will be OK
2006-11-04 11:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to make yourself get over it. you only feel that way because your bf made you feel all those emotion so now that he is gone you have no one to make you feel that way. try to move on
2006-11-04 11:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get your hair done and put on something sexy then have a girls night out
2006-11-04 11:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by jetli1333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋