2006-11-04 10:56:32 · 17 answers · asked by KUkuCHoooo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Suck it up and go. Stop being selfish and be happy that those two people have found love. Of all the people they know, they invited YOU, be grateful for that. It's their day and you're being a big baby about it.
2006-11-04 10:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you are not a wedding kind of person..?? What does that mean? Is it because you are envious of the bride? Weddings are about a big party where people socialize and have a great time with food, wine and dancing. You as individual posting this type of question..makes you sound like a boring person with no social skills.
Sorry if it was not what you wanted to hear but you posted a question wanting answers so I gave you my opinion only..I don't know you and I could be totally wrong..but, I am entitled to my opinion because you asked.
2006-11-04 19:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well missy you are very rude. Someone invited you to their wedding and you don't want to go. What happens when it's your wedding and no one wants to go? How will you feel? Receptions cost a lot of money per plate...usually $50.00-$100.00 per person so if you have to send in a response card or call then I think it's only fair you do it. That's a lot of money for them to throw away if you don't show up. Just tell them you are sorry but you can't make it and you better send a gift. Yes they will know if you don't show, they have little place cards at the door. So you have to let them know before the wedding.
2006-11-04 19:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by winter715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weddings are about the couple "tying the knot" celebrating their joy with those they feel add something to their lives.
the choice is yours as to whether or not you want to join in that celebration - BUT I think it is rather sad if you can't put aside your feelings for a few hours to participate
if you have to travel some distance then you could say you cant afford the travel costs at this time;but if you live in the same town/area - then there is really no excuse
2006-11-04 21:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by fairypelican 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ceremony isn't that long just go for the ceremony then skip the reception. If it's a crowd thing sit in the back.
Granted the bride and groom will have their minds on other things and not who is there that they may not miss you, but you should decline if you're not going to go so they are not hurt for some reason if you don't show.
2006-11-04 19:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not a wedding type of person and i dont want to go to a wedding either but im a brides maid. just suck it up and go...not the end of the world honey!
2006-11-04 19:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them a family emergency occur and just give them a card good luck to you
2006-11-04 19:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on who the wedding is for. if its for one of your friends or a close relative you probably should go, but if its for like you 2nd cousin twice removed or a not close friend you could get by getting sick on the day of the wedding.
2006-11-04 18:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Thaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either DON'T go, or go and endure it. Either way the world will keep revolving. And it's WEDDING!
2006-11-04 19:16:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here. try 2 sound reallly enthusiastic about hten pretend ur sick on the wedding day n u get it.
2006-11-04 19:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♫♥chocol8roxღ♫ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋