live with my sister or dad,my pony cat and three mice just died and all my friends laugh at mebecause im constently sheding tears.what should i do.??
2006-11-04 10:52:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my mom and dad are dieing my sister is going to comitt suiside and my bf died falling off a waterfall and droundingwith her dad i cried then too.
2006-11-04 11:03:48 · update #1
my dad didnt laugh at me he is dieing!!
2006-11-04 11:07:06 · update #2
my sister is dead my step mom call me and when she came back from the store she was lieing dead on the groundand now i feal like dieing.
2006-11-04 11:21:39 · update #3
my step parents and my foster parents i mean sorry im getting confuesed because my greatgrandfather died.sorry ppl sorry.
2006-11-04 13:05:47 · update #4
wow you have some seriuse story telling problems keep your storys stait lets see how could you have step parents and foster parents your parents dieing andyour parents being deadin a plane crash.Plz tell me
2006-11-04 14:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by YO 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all your dad should be ashamed of himself for laughing at you. He should be consoling you. Your sister is like any sibling they do whatever they can to annoy you. You appear very sensitive and why shouldn't you cry if your Great grandfather died only yesterday. It's good to cry. Where is your mom or another female figure in your household? Someone who can help you through this. If not then if you are in school ask your teacher if ther is someone you can talk to about it. You know I have a 25 yr old daughter who moved very far away when she got married and it's almost a year since I've seen her and I was buying her a birthday card this week and I started crying in the store because I haven't seen her in such a long time. Some of us cry easier than others and it's ok, and I'm a grown woman.
2006-11-04 11:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by winter715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Hawiian Princess,
My heart goes out to You for Many reasons. First I am very sorry for the loss of Your Grandfather. The steps of grief are usually shock or denial, sadness, and then anger. Not always in that order. It is natural to mourn a Loved One, and the people that You are calling Your Friends, well let's just say that true Friends love and care about us, they do not laugh at us when We are sad. An old lesson I heard Years ago was that when One's life gets so bad that they climb into a hole. A true Friend is one who sits at the opening of the hole with their hand stretched out to help, as long as it takes for the Person to come out. You take the time that You need to greive. And God Bless You.
Now I read Your answer that said that both of Your Parents are sick and that Your Sister is going to commit suicide. That worries Me tremendously. First People who say that they are going to kill Themselves, often do. It is only a myth that those who talk about it, only want attention. Talk to Your Parents about this. This is not the time to keep a secret. I have always taught My Children that You need to know when to keep a confidence, and when You should not. Your Sister needs help, please tell Someone. You said that You do not live with Her, tell Your Mom, or tell a Responsible Adult. The death of Your Grandfather may push Her over the edge. Yes I know that this is a lot for Someone who is 9, but You came here for a reason, and helping to save Your Sister's life might just be part of why You did. I have already said a prayer for Your Family. There are lots of phone numbers in the front of Your phone book that have People to talk to about any kind of Problems.
May God Bless You and Your Family
Here are some Phone Numbers that might help:
National Youth Crisis Hot Line 1-800-448-4663
Hopeline 24/7 1-800-784-2433
National Suicide Prevention 1-800-273-8255
And yes You can call them and talk to them about Your sister.
2006-11-04 11:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's normal for you to cry after someone has died. I think maybe you should live with your sister because your a girl. Not saying your dad will do anything or nothing like that it's just that girls go through things which is better if they live with other women. As for your friends you should really drop them because if they are laughing at you you probably don't need them if they are going to laugh about you crying.
2006-11-04 10:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your lose. Maybe try to speak with the guidance counselor at school for some help. It sounds like everyone is kicking you when you are already down & it is not right nor fair for them to treat you in this manner. Your friends should be your shoulder (s) to cry on. If they are suppose to be your friends, they should all be there for you thru your grieving. Death is hard whether its a pet or a family member. It takes time for the tears to stop. I hope things get better for you.
2006-11-04 11:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by Kammaka2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss. I don't understand that your friends are finding this funny? Sounds like you need some new friends. You might try talking to the school counselor also to help you get through your grief. It's OK and normal to be sad, very sad, when you experience loss. Sometimes, things even get a lot better and then you find months later that you are sad again. It comes and goes. It is important to know that your grandpa would want you to move forward in life and not be crying all the time for him. He knew you loved him and would not want you to be miserable. Try to move on in tribute to him.
Best to you!! ((HUGS))
2006-11-04 10:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom died when i was six. i cried for a long time too. then i got depressed when my friends would say "im soo sorry" then go off and play games without me. i just decided that my mom loved me, and it wasnt her fault that she died. i told myself that its her turn to be at peace and i have to respect "the circle of life." Just think about your grand dad and your pony and kitty ect. and pretend that they came back just for like a minute. what would they tell you? what would their expectations for you be? im sure they wouldnt want you to cry forever... just try to tell your self that it was meant to be, and know that they will always be in your heart. and for goodness sake, go have some fun!
2006-11-04 11:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Amyscastle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey, its okay to cry. . . only strong people cry. .it is not good to hold in your emotions. I am so sorry for all of your problems. .just try and stay strong and know your grandfather and pets loved you, and they are watching you from a better, beautiful place and you will someday see them again. I hope everything will work out for you, and I will pray for you.
2006-11-04 11:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to keep your stories straight. Either you're 9 or 10. Either your parents are dead or dying. That's just not funny.
2006-11-04 12:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry about all your losses....cry how much ever u want.......sometimes it's good....it will all get better in a little while
take care and i wish u the best luck ever....please don't commit suicide...it is so wrong and ive been through that phase.of wanting to kill myself..but just don't..hang in there it will all get better...good luck
2006-11-04 11:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋