What do you think about not having sex before marrige?

Question

Is it old school to respect your gf or bf before marrige?
Or do you consider is not disrespect to touch something that is not yours, and at the long run could be someone else's?

What do you think?

Answer 1

you said it just right, I say a guy pay for doing the opposite of what you said!

Answer 2

I don't think it is old school, but I do think good sex is an important part of marriage. Sex brings a couple closer together if it includes a lot of give and take.I don't think I would ever marry again without testing the waters and I wouldn't rely on practice makes perfect, either. Sex is best when both parties have mutual needs and respect the enjoyment value for their partner, too.

Answer 3

I think it is a very wonderful thing when a couple can wait till marriage to have sex. It is like the most wonderful gift you can give each other. Your partner will respect you more in the long run and most of all you will respect yourself. I know it is not a perfect world out there and many of us give in to temptation but to those who can hold off till marriage i really respect those people. And at least you should hold off till you get to know each other very well because it makes the relationship much more meaningful and the person you love more special.

Answer 4

As long as you are mature and are in a relationship where you could possibly see yourself with this person for good go ahead.
Feeling love for each other is alot better during sex and knowing that both are just as committed.
If you both fall out of love in the future, you must both agree that you won't regret you did have sex, and you shouldn't 'cause it was for the right reasons at the time.

Answer 5

i think for a man, sex is normally not a big issue on when it happens and i think ther is a lot more pressure on a man to have sex before marriage being the reason... as for women, i think it is 100% whenever they are ready and they should never be pressured to do so before then, men shouldnt either, but often we are

and for the record, i have great respect for someone who waits til marriage and i would never pressure anyone, i believe it is something that every person should decide on ther own whether they are redy or not

Answer 6

Well, it depends on if you came to that conclusion together or just one of you decided on that. There is absolutely nothing wrong about waiting until you are married before having sex. I don't know about you but my husband and I waited but that was many years ago. We went out for 5 years, yes 5 years and I was a virgin, even I don't believe it. But in those days mostly everyone was a virgin or said they were...LOL. I'm not saying I didn't want to do it. We went to Hawaii on our honeymoon and had to go back to really see the outside of our hotel room...LOL.

Answer 7

Not really old school, but not usually done in this day and age. Honestly, depending on your age it is hard to find someone who hasn't had sex, let alone doesn't have kids. Everyone has needs. Being realistic about that, you'll both agree when the time is right. Just remember to protect yourselves. Rapp it up!!

Answer 8

i dont think it's old school, i think it's a very wise decision. abstinence is the best form of birth control. and i also think that sex is a gift, and i dont want to give my gift to just anyone, i want to give it to someone who i know for certain will treasure it for a matter of years.

i don't marry someone depending on whether they're good in bed or not. because what if something happens and the other person can never have sex again? would you stop loving them, or love them less, if you factored the "being good in bed" thing into your relationship?

Answer 9

I think it's a good decision to respect you gf or bf before marriage. God commanded that you wait for bodily contact until you get married

Answer 10

I think it's a completely personal choice. If you choose to have sex before marriage, then it's fine. You're not really bothering anyone else. If you choose to wait, then that's great too; you're saving all of yourself up for your husband or wife instead of handing over some leftovers.

If you're dating someone who thinks you're less of a person for wanting to wait, then reconsider what kind of person he or she is. Also, keep in mind that biologically, organisms enjoy sex. So...if you choose to wait, then sticking to your morals is great. If you decide not to, then...you're only human.

Answer 11

It's not a good Idea to wait to have sex,we are here today and gone tomorrow we never know what each day bring,if something was to happen, you would have never known how great sex felt.Something to think about.