2006-11-04 10:48:48 · 11 answers · asked by gina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wasted four years with a guy like that.
If he doesn't love himself, he can't love you. Let him go about his business so you can find someone who is more emotionally available. Because you will never be happy with him.
2006-11-04 10:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound good to me.he doesn't love himself? so the question is...does he love you? people say when a person does not love himself,he's not able to love anybody else. so i think you should find someone who can love you just as much you can love him, maybe more!
all the best to you!
2006-11-04 18:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him. I've struggled with depression my whole life, I go through periods where I hate myself. The best thing you can do is just love him for who he is... dont try to convince him to love himself, that will never work, just do it by example.
2006-11-04 18:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by czekoskwigel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if im getting this right; then i think you should leave him. giving someone confidence in himself is very hard and ends up hurting you in the long run. someone always cutting themselves down just makes you feel worse and worse because you cant do anything about it.
2006-11-04 18:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by aimsterff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix him....just kdding! Run away and don;t look back. He won;t be "happy" until you are as miserable as he is. Someday he might learn to love himself, but don't count on it.
2006-11-04 18:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that problem, as he loves not himself it ends up hurting you. I do not know that solution
2006-11-04 18:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant love someone completely until they are able to love themselves and let themselves be loved by others ? Make sense?
2006-11-04 18:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by ChiGuy2377 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray. no really just try to help build them up give alot of praise. you need to let them know that its hard to love someone when they do not love them self's
2006-11-04 18:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by christine z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk him into loving you
2006-11-04 18:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by DaYoungH-B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else.
2006-11-04 18:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋