Why are high school girls so much drama?

Question

Ok I have this on and off gf for the past 9 going on 10 months. So 2 nights ago everything was cool and I was going to ask her back out but then I backed out cuz I felt it wasnt the right time and I think she kinda knew what I was going to ask her cuz her mood changed when I didnt ask. Ok so shes been a witch since then and her little lame male friend gets in my face calling me dirt and crap and she just sits there and lets this kid give me the finger. Like wtf when someone talks crap about her I stick up for her but she cant for me? And the only reason why that kid is still alive is cuz hes only 15 like my gf and I'm 17 and 6'5 and hes like 5'5 or so and I could break that kid. So after that once everyone leaves then she wants to try and cuddle up to me and crap but I pushed her away. What to do? What is her deal?

Answer 1

first of all highschool relationships are stupid and should not have so much thought involved in them. if she is too much drama for you just break it off, its not like she will remember this situation for the rest of her life, she is only 15 and still has a very long way to go.

Answer 2

High school girls are so dramatic because they have nothing else to do but talk, gossip and start controversy. Obviously she is immature and not too serious about you. Date an older woman in college and maybe you'd see a difference in what is important. Trust me, not all high school girls are immature and not all college girls are mature, but there is a huge difference and if a girl is truly interested in you, then she'd stand up for you and not let some jerk get in your face. Or at least that is what I'd do, but I don't have any jerky male friends that would be that immature. So as the saying goes, you are the company you keep and she is immature as she still hangs out with that dude. Keep truckin, don't put up with ANY bull!

Answer 3

I think her deal is that she tooo immature to be in a relationship. If you want a girl that is mature minded look eslewhere then maybe later down the track your 15yr old might have grown up. Remember she is 15. Playing games. She still young and full of dramas, still learning as well. You are 17 you've been there done that and you sound pretty mature since you haven't 'clocked' her little 15yr old bodyguard lol.

Answer 4

Hey slaphappy,

It sounds like you really don't like her and her games. It's time to drop her and find somebody else. She'll be better off and you certainly would. You're too young to be having a girlfriend. You really should be playing the field and working towards your career.

Have you considered older women, just for the time being? There's less drama, more appreciation, and better sex.

Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:

http://www.blowmeuptom.com

I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.

--Rick

Answer 5

she is immature, hormones are running amuck, she is trying to find herself & trying to find out if & how she can control every male she meets. She will learn not to do it eventually (hopefully) but in the meantime AVOID her. She sounds like she enjoys stirring things up for her enjoyment and you sound mature enough not to need her attitude issues

Answer 6

well first of all ur dating a person that doesnt have the same maturity level as u do so y do u expect her to act mature

i say dump her for good

Answer 7

Why are high school girls so much drama? Because they're high school girls and haven't matured yet. Some never do.

Answer 8

dude, really, you have just as much drama as she does. check yourself pal and then get a life.