If so, what was your initial reaction? Are you like, "How is that possible?" Supposed the guy was bald with a big nose and slightly out of shape and the woman was gorgeous. Is that possible? Let's assume the guy is not rich.
2006-11-04 10:44:53 · 22 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well women want a good man that treats them well. Sometimes a ballsy average guy can get a good looking woman over a good looking man who wont approach a woman. Women like being approached, not in a sleezy way but in a nice way or a guy who approaches the woman in a funny way.
Also the man wasnt born bald or fat so maybe he changed years after they were already married.
Men should not be afraid to talk to women. It is much easier for an ugly man to get a hot woman than vice versa because women care less about good looks than men. Women want a nice, decent, caring man, who also has a job/career or at least has realistic goals he is pursuing.
2006-11-04 10:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, are you just sort of...describing yourself?
To answer the question, yes, plenty of times, and vice versa (with a super hot guy and some very...well, to put it bluntly, an extremely unattractive girlfriend). The guy you described sounds like he's unmotivated in life (bald, out of shape, not rich), but if he's a good guy with a fun personality, friendly, hard-working, willing to give what little things he has to the girl, then it's not hard to imagine him with a girl who appreciates how he treats her.
Inevitably, though, if you just flat-out deliberately don't take care of yourself (you don't shower, you don't shave, you sit on the couch all day instead of exercising), if you're with a gorgeous person who does all of those things, there'll be a personality clash. At least make an effort!
2006-11-04 10:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stay with my diet for me I don't do it for other people. I care about how I feel, and look and If an average girl were to ask me out I would go. I would date her, I have had many girlfriends some average soome not. It's the person. It's all about their attitude towards me and others. Making friends used to be easier, however people seem to be more demanding, I don't know why that is It could be that relationships keep failing because people are so demanding. We see another persons faults but we don't see our own. Most people will say that they are kind and loving but never open doors for other people, say hello when they are in a hurry. It suddenly becomes all about them. Smiles are nice to give they are free smiles make a persons day brighter. so smiles to you dear practice that attitude see that you don't have to be average You never have to act gloomy. Thank you and have a wonderful day.
2016-05-21 23:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To many times to count. Also, a guy you might consider as being ugly might be very attractive to the women he is with. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2006-11-04 10:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by M M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-04 10:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see it all the time,guys assume because a woman is beautiful shes taken most of the time that's not the case, so these not so great looking guys are the only ones who ask them out,I'm not joking ask any beautiful girl her opinion on her own looks she say she average,because guys don't ask her out alot!!!!!!!!
2006-11-04 10:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so well you took away my first thoughts......he's rich! If not then yes I have wondered many times and thats wrong of me to do that. And I have also seen women fall for guys who were not rich nor were they good looking and they treated the women like complete CRAP!...
and then I say
"WHAT THE !@#$%^&*()_!@%#$!$$+$&#@+$&#*&&@_+++ @**&$^&#^% IS UP WITH THAT??!!!!"
2006-11-04 10:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tina M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I'm that way. I dont go after hot guys. I know I look good... I know I can get the hot guy, But I prefer an average guy. Average guys They treat you differently, Better than a Hot guy actually.
2006-11-04 10:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't consider myself good looking, but I have been seen on the arm of some very glamourous ladies. Maybe it is my personality and/or the feeling of security that ladies like!
2006-11-04 10:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by bovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens all of the time in my case your personality out weighs your looks looks are not everything you have to have something going for your self other that a cute face
2006-11-04 10:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋