I keep rejecting guys here and there (usually coz they're not graduates - why me :(
.. and the ones I like.. well don't ask. doesn't work there. Will I get this one that I dream of? Does it really happen, or will I die single?
2006-11-04 10:40:45 · 17 answers · asked by just me.. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on you if you don't allow you're self to find him or take risks how will you know? You won't!! So do what is right for you not anyone else!! good luck and hope this helps!!
2006-11-04 10:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you will get you dream guy, because only you can control your own destiny. However, you sound like your still very young as you prefer graduate guys. If you are over 18 you should date any one you like and ask them out instead of waiting for them to come to you to ask you out. It's a two way street when it comes to the dating scene. It is not the 1950's anymore. Today is the year 2006. Believe me, just ask and who knows he might be your dream guy.
2006-11-04 10:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does happen, and so often its right under your nose and you don't even realize it. I was obsessed with this one guy in our highschool, he was gorgeous but when i tried to be accepted by him, he trampled all over my feelings.(I was not a pretty girl then) Around that same time, I became friends with another boy who visited me during his lunch hour just so we could talk about things. He wasn't as handsome, but he has this wonderful warm smile and his eyes just sparkle. Yeah, I didn't even realize it then, though I look back at it and I think what a moron I was for not seeing straight. Then I went away for the summer and came back different. After going through Tae Kwon do practices, going to church activites and just learning to be a better person, I was fit, I had confidence. And that same guy I was obsessed about came after me, and like the idiot I was (and probably still am) I accepted him. but after awhile I began to see him for what he did, how he was so cruel to other people and how I really wasn't happy. So I dumped him and stayed a single. during this whole confusing and very painful time in my life, my guyfriend stayed with me the whole time. Then it was time for the prom, and he invited me and after that, it was natural. I can say that I am more happy then I have ever been before. Of course, my meeting sounds like a novel, but everyone id different. Good luck to you, I hope you find him.
2006-11-04 10:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by Iron Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, dream guys are only in movies. That doesn't mean you have to settle. You will find a man that you love and who loves you. That is all that matters. He doesn't have to be a dream guy.But even though you are in love, love does not pay the rent, or bills, food etc. Then the fighting over money starts and the communication starts to dwindle. No matter what anyone says love isn't enough. If you have children then forget it, formula, diapers, clothes, etc. Everything means money. Life is money. Sad but true.
2006-11-04 10:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by winter715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really. Maybe the right guy for you just hasn't came yet. For the mean time you should go out with one of the boys that ask you. It doesn't matter how he looks maybe if you get to know him he'll be a really nice guy and he could be the one that you've been looking for all of this time and you were just blinded by the light.
2006-11-04 10:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to find your dream guy, I found my dream girl in the weirds posible way, and she came out of nowhere. All I did was ask God for the girl that I wanted, and wait paciently in him. and POOF!! Now I am with the most beatiful girl in the whole universe, and all I did was not go out.
Believe me it was worth it.
2006-11-04 10:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by racm_86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you have the man of our dreams is so unrealistic. the man in your dreams is perfect in every way but there is no perfect man so you will keep rejecting guys waiting for this man that doesn't exist. keep up this rate and you'll have a house full of cats in no time
2006-11-04 10:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You will probably not die single.
And you are right to try to date guys who are graduates.
But if your dream criteria are too strong, you may miss out on a lot of great guys.
2006-11-04 10:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by fcas80 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try too hard to find Mr. Right. Mr.Right is out there. More often than not things will happen on their own! Hang in there! : )
2006-11-04 10:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dream on, Honey! You will either need to lower your standards or become content with yourself.
2006-11-04 10:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lizzy Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋