i am very jealous,does anyone knows how to stop it?

Answer 1

Jealous of what? If you're jealous of your friends because they have nicer cars, hair, clothes etc, then that shows insecurity in yourself. If you're jealous of your boyfriend being around other girls, then that shows insecurity too...but is a more harmful type of jealousy in my opinion, because it's fuelled by your love for your partner, and can only get worse. If you're jealous of your friends, you can always aspire to have hair/car/clothes like them...it's not hard...but being jealous of another woman that your boyfriend talks to is horrible, because no matter how hard you try, you'll always believe that you can never be as good as her (even though it's probably all in your head).

It's insecurity either way, and you're the only person who can deal with it.

Answer 2

It's hard to stop being jealous when you really like someone and they only notice other people. Try focusing your attention on someone who's worthy of your time and gives you attention back, even if it may take a while. Then you won't care so much about the person who you were jealous of before, and you can move on with your life. Meet some new people =)

Answer 3

Depends what you're jealous about. If it has to do with jealousy towards a person you like, the best advice I can give you is to move on. They aren't worth the aggravation.

Answer 4

By gaining security within yourself. Jealousy is a result of an insecure character. People with issues of insecurity should not date until they have learned to resolve this dilemma.

You have to realize your potential as well as your faults; your good qualities, as well as your limitations. and most of all...ACCEPTING them and who you are. You should have the ability and maturity to work on your faults as this is a lifelong battle. This falls into the category of facing your fears. When you fear, you must face it directly (head on) in order to overcome it.

Accepting yourself must come first before another person can accept you for you. You will strive through life meeting many people. There will be many of those people who may dislike you for any reason. this is a part of life and you must accept the fact, we cannot make friends with everyone. With this in mind, you become confident you will find more friends as well as love relationships when one doesn't work out. With this confidence, you then start to erase your insecurity as you gain the security in realizing the pattern of life revolves and one day, you will find what you are seeking. Remember, "rejection" is a part of life. How you handle it will make the difference in your path.

Answer 5

It depends on what you are jealous about.....i was abit jealous of my ex bf talking to this girl who i disliked for very good reasons and it kinda ruined our relationship...you either learn to trust or start being more secure with yourself.

Answer 6

It depends on what youre jealous about. Give us more details.

Answer 7

yeah you get a grip on the situation. jealous of what? friends? partner? depends on the situation really but you need to keep your feelings in check.

Answer 8

Start by having some confidenece on your self by working on it. Then writ all that you want to achieve because you need and not because other have achieve it, and start working towards achieving your goals. Then remove your guilt, give your taughts to God and free yourself.

Answer 9

jealous of what? sounds like you don't have confidence in yourself

Answer 10

dude jealous of who what ya gotta elabourate man ..........right listen cause da padster man i lived a life..and OoOOOHhh. ............ fooook dat was within da last 48hr.......anyways do get anger combined with this jealousy cause if ya do fooooook no wat eva ya do worked for me never look in another mirror .................... dont wanna get into a fight wit ya self i do it all da time shaddow boxing .....aint won yet always wake up on da floor with a headache..........