2006-11-04 10:14:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It was in a car accident and my dad was only 25 and my grand father was 49
2006-11-04 10:42:37 · update #1
I'm so sorry for your losses.Its hard to loose one loved one let alone two.It will be a hard time.I lost my little sister in July.I'm still not over it yet.Nothing any one says right now will take away the pain of your loss.I can say it gets better with time.Don't get down and stay by yourself.Keep seeing friends and family.Keep yourself busy.Like I said time will heal your heart ache.Bless You
2006-11-04 10:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I'm so sorry about your loss. The one thing that may you help you though is to keep a diary or journal and write down any important things about your greatgrand father and your father.
for example, what are some special places that you went to or visited with each of these 2 people?
What did of each of them do to make you laugh when you were feeling down?
What is the one thing that sticks out in your mind the most about these 2 people?
Write down your questions and your answers and this will be surely help you to remember things clearly as well as help you to heal a little bit at a time.
Writing is good therapy sometimes and I honestly believe that you need that right now.
I hope this answer helps you in some way. Again, i'm sorry about your loss
2006-11-04 10:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by angelbeliever114 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry...
yeah, everyone deals with death differently.
you may need to be there for your mother and your family and be a source of encouragement for them. you will find that by being a source of encouragement for your family, they will encourage you too.
during difficult times when you are alone, i would try to pray about it. no matter what religion you are. it may make it easier to cope.
stay active (sports, hobbies, etc) and be with people.
try to remember the good things that you and your father (or grandfather) did, and try to live your life in way that would make them proud.
if your family doesnt have a pet, like a dog or something.
you might get an animal to help make the family feel more warm.
try not to be alone. the next year is difficult.
2006-11-04 15:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sopwith 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm really sorry for your loss. That is a lot of family to lose all at once. Being past sad is an understatement. See if you can talk to your minister or go to a consular. One of the things that helped my sister, when our Mom died, was to go to the grave and sit with a cup of tea and just talk to her.
2006-11-04 10:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm terribly sorry for your loss I don't know how that is but in a 5 month period I lost my grandma, two uncles, an aunt, a dog, and the greatest horse alive! but I just smiled everywhere I went and kept myself busy and cried on my own time! I don't know if that ole help!
2006-11-04 10:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to someone you love or are close to. If you can not do this go to a counsellor. You need to grieve your lose. I am so sorry to hear this and hope that you get over your depression soon.
2006-11-04 10:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh...Oh...well, i think u shd slowly move on, be a source of strength to ur family...remember, if u r depressed all d time, ur greatgrandpa n ur father won't like it whn they c u from heaven...wherever they r they r living in peace...so just try ur best 2 be +ve! good luck2 u, i'm with u!
2006-11-04 17:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by daaruin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry for your loss dont really know what to say but it takes alot of time to heal the pain of ones loss never goes away but it will get better take one day at a time and be strong think of all the good times and know your dad and granddad will always be with you keep them in your heart ........... again sorry for your loss and god bless
2006-11-04 10:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
aye bro! man i know how u feel
cuz when my grandad died i was
so sad! juss dont worry bout him
cuz he's in a better place now!
i guess all u can do is just not worry
hang w/ peoples and try and keep yo
mind off of them!!!
R.I.P
2006-11-04 10:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋