i always end up with the horndogs and the jerks...are there any nice guys i can talk to??
2006-11-04 10:11:24 · 30 answers · asked by Regina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there was one, but I corrupted him...sorry, now he's a horn dog too.
2006-11-04 10:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by angelofdreams19881 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are nice guys still out there. But I warn you, keep an eye out for those self-proclaimed nice-guys. They are the ones who do nice things with wrong intentions, i.e. trying to get in your pants etc. Those are the hypocrites, the ones who aren't nice just for the sake of being nice. They tend to be very insecure, TOO flexible and needy. Or they tend to end up "turning" into the horndog, cuz thats all they were in the beginning. They just hid it with that whole nice guy charade.
Just don't let this discourage you!
Just like its hard to find the genuine nice girls, it's equally as hard to find the genuine nice guys.
2006-11-04 18:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by then NATE says 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are out there they just take time to come to the surface. Just give it time you will find one untill then fine a nice bat to beat back the horndogs and jerks.
2006-11-04 18:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by d2347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL OF US ARE HORNDOGS! Some of us are better at keeping our "dogs" under control than others. Girls shouldn't be so hard on us about our sex drive. Just imagine if it were the other way around! Girls would be raping guys and doing crazy stuff just to get us in bed, while we would prefer to just get some beers and play cards with the guys!
2006-11-04 18:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are. It's the nature of the beast with teen boys. Not the jerk part, just the horn dog. :)
But if you are older, why do you keep ending up with these kinds of guys? Why are you choosing them? That is where the problem is . You keep doing the 'same dance' just with a different guy. You need counselling. There is a reason for this.
We teach people how to treat us.
2006-11-04 18:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But that's what most women want---a challenge. A "nice guy" is boring and predictable. A lot of women think they can change the bad boys---but when they find out they can't its too late. A nice guys gives them nothing to look forward to.
I'm not saying there are not exceptions to the rule.
2006-11-04 18:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by rrticulate1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are hard to find ..... This generation has little respect for wholesome relationships and is way over sexualised .. Find yourself a geek or a nerd with money! They tend to have stronger values and more respect!
2006-11-04 18:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by blahblah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but you may not meet many until you are in college or even older. so the key is to do the things you enjoy, stay out of bars and you will find nice guys who are into what you like. it's all about patience and not tolerating the jerky weirdos out there. don't give them your precious time.
2006-11-04 18:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by outtahere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
80% of guys are in fact a**holes (they're an embarressment 2 men everywhere) and the 20% of nice guys wit a big hart is all thats left get yours fast before they all gone.
2006-11-04 18:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Agent Buckwald! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their problem is they're unattractive... Besides, girls/women tend to get bored with the nice guys and the bad boy usually winds up with the girl...
2006-11-04 18:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...but you have to know this...most "boys" want more than talk.
"Intellengent" girls would know that. If you don't want a relationship with the guy...don't talk to him. Sad but true. You can't have a boy 'friend" unless you plan on taking it further.
Be careful of the talk...
2006-11-04 18:19:05 · answer #11 · answered by BadBill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋