2006-11-04 09:54:19 · 21 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you THINK!!
do you think that's enough to judge and breakup such a great relationship you have...
honey first make sure that he's on a relationship then BREAKUP with him if it's true ...don't follow assumptions and regret it all your life
best wishes
2006-11-04 10:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by sweet cherry78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you are not sure of the affair, or else you would have breaked up already. Aks some common friend about this, and make sure that he has an affair. In that case, dont break up and start flirting with some other guy. This will teach him a lesson, rather than breaking up with him.
2006-11-05 05:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes our suspicions are just products of our imagination. Before you do anything, is their conclusive evidence of him having an affair? If yes, then leave him, unless you want to be a third party. And three is always a crowd. If you don't have any evidence, then you have to give him the benefit of the doubt. If your communication lines are open (which should be the case) and you are honest with each other, then ask him point blank. don't ask in an accusatory nature but express your feelings about it..like .(but this will indicate that you don't trust him enough) Trust is one of the vital foundations of any relationship. In the end, it would really be your choice. Decide wisely.
2006-11-04 19:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U R boyfriend have an affair before U take him as the boyfriend the leave him no problem If that affair is after U consider him as a boyfriend then surely break it
2006-11-04 21:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about the affair or catch him in the act to find out if it's true. If he really is having an affair.....I would dump him!! No girl deserves to be treated like that!!
2006-11-04 17:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Cecilia B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
helloo
first confirm about the the affair.
if it is tru then dont let him cheat u.
just catch him red handed and expose him near that girl. End it right there?
wish u all the best
2006-11-04 22:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy friend is boy friend.
Till he becomes your husband, you have no right to poke your nose in his affairs.
As you said, it is your thinking.
It tells, you have not seen by your own eyes. Unless you confirm about his activities, how can you question him.
You can keep him or leave him.
Be straight instead of pretending.
Before that think for ten times.
After all it is friendship not a relationship.
2006-11-04 21:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is having an affair. If you really love someone you would never hurt them. I say an affair is hurting someone. If he is really having one, dump him and go on with a life you deserve.
2006-11-04 17:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You think but you don't know ... it might be a good idea to try to talk this out. Gather your information, and sit down with him in a neutral area (not your place, not his, but someplace where you can have a quiet intelligent discussion).
Unless you have proof-positive information, don't accuse. Just lay out what you know and why it causes you to think he's stepping out on you.
If he admits it, you have to decide for yourself what you're willing to tolerate in this or any relationship.
Good luck!
2006-11-04 18:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by princessmeltdown 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first i want to tell the word u are using bf is the *** word
and second the u should first ask him and ask him until he Say's in the emotional word or in the angry mood if he Say's in an gee so leave him if he Say's in emotional mood so get with him only
2006-11-04 18:11:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋