2006-11-04 09:53:34 · 35 answers · asked by HOT- LATINA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you want to continue this relationship...then you have to find it within yourself to forgive him....its hard to rebuild trust in a relationship....and there is no easy way......hopefully he wont do it to you again...but personally i would end the relationship and move on to someone who will respect you
2006-11-04 09:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think what you need to ask yourself is "do you WANT to forgive your boyfriend for cheating on you?" Once you have answered that for yourself, then you can move forward with the actual act of forgiveness. Weigh the pro's and con's of your relationship and compare them to how much YOU think YOU are worth, and you will find your answer.
2006-11-04 10:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id be very mad but it depends what if does it again im a really nice peson with very hash and imformative q&a but id forgive him God would,so you should too.But if he had sex dump him,if,he does it agian dumphim,and dont let you catch you agian because you can tell him there are other men out there thatwould love you anough not to ceat on you.so forgive him and make him promis on the holy bible(or god ether one works)to never chaet on you or any other woman agian.Have you heard the song before he cheats by carrie underwood that would probibly help you a lot.
2006-11-04 09:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, i don't think you should forgive that, much less if he cheated while only being a boyfriend? how about if you were married. also, do you actually feel so low about yourself that you think you have to actually kiss a man that has kissed other lips while being with you? believe me you don't need these kind of problems. i've been through them twice and have wasted 18 years of my life (11 with the first & 7 with the other) it's not worth it. let go & look for another one that can think with his brains and respect you for who you are.
2006-11-04 09:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by jessiereyes2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive is easy, Forget is impossible. He has done the ultimate wrong in a relationship. If you think you can trust him you may wish to take him back but it will always be in your mind that he screwed up. You know him better than you think, you'll know whether he would do it again or not. It's called trust and you can trust what he would do if he got the chance again. What do you trust that he would do?
2006-11-04 09:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by The Druid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
treat for tat..nothing else you can do.First find out How he is cheating you is it a public say or your mind.Do you have witness of his cheating on you.And if all the details you have collected analyze it and decide yourself what to do next...
You don't have to forgive him but put a some good words in his ear so before his next act he feels oh you are in just front of him as a road block.How can you forget your First Love and image of him created in your mind,heart,body and soul.Every human beings are supposed to do mistakes,if you count it these are lots.What if you cheat on him? ask yourself..and balance it.
2006-11-04 09:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant, and shouldnt.
forgiveness is not something you can force. you either do or dont forgive him. it is an emotion. and if you dont truely forgive him, then dump him.
in mu personal experience, after a cheating, it will never be the same. HE will get suspicious of you because he cheated, and you will never fully trust him. so, either deal with that, or find someone who wont cheat on you.
2006-11-04 09:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is the relationship worth it? You better be sure that this wont reoccur or you will be waisting your time...My many years of experience with relationships taught me that when they cheat once, more than likely they will do it again..... Life is too short to tolerate the abuses that relationships can bring.... Communication is the key to a successful and happy one!
2006-11-04 10:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by blahblah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no guaranties in life that he won't do it again !But he cheated on you and it's up you if you can forgive him . And it will be your decision if you can live with it or not . So really it's in your hand s
2006-11-04 09:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on. Someone who cheats has a lot of problems including impulse control, respecting one's girlfriend, having no morality or integrity.
Do you want someone who will kiss and hold you in one moment and then do the same with someone else when you aren't loking....what kind of person does that take?
Move on and find someone who will love and respect you.
2006-11-04 09:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will not be able to ever heal if you don't forgive him. Forgiveness is for you, not him.
Make peace with him & what he has done. Then tell him goodbye. Allow yourself the necessary healing process. Never look back.
2006-11-04 09:56:17 · answer #11 · answered by weddrev 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋