latley things have just been getting worse for me?

Question

it seems like everything that could go wrong in my life has why ??what have i done wrong

Answer 1

nothing, everyone feels like this sometimes, just live trough if for now, it will get better =]

Answer 2

You havent done anything wrong. Its just the balance of life. Things cant always go good all the time. There has to be a balance. When everything is going good for awhile always prepare yourself for the times when things wont be. When things are on the downside for me I just try to remember that they wont last forever and things will start looking up again. Also when things seem really bad I think about how the things that are happening to me arent as bad as things that could be happening to someone else and I realize that what is happening to me at the moment really isnt all that bad. For example a friend of mine who was lighting a boiler and it blew up on him and he and another guy caught on fire and he was burnt over 90 % of his body and lived. They told him that he wouldnt walk again but a year later this fool is out dancing. He is still that same sweet adorable and funny person he was before the accident only looks different now. I think of him everytime I start to feel that my life sucks and it is nothing compared to what he went through and never was negative. Imagine your life as the hands on the clock and right now that things are going not so good you can say are dark times which is night. Time never stops and the sun always rises which brings the daylight which is the good time in your life. You just have to wait out the night and for the sun to rise.

Answer 3

All of us have up & down life cycles but you did not give us any details so we have no way of knowing about yours.
Sometimes a company may have lay-offs, which are not the workers fault but life will get worse for awhile.
Sometimes people do stupid stuff like getting drunk and life will get worse and it is the drunks fault.
Is it just stuff that happens ? We all have to learn to roll with the punches
or are you doing something lame ? Then Quit it !

Answer 4

For every action there is a re-action. What actions have you done recently that has caused you to feel the way you do.

A good idea is to start thinking positive about your life. When you think positive, postitive things will start to happen in your life. And your life will turn around in the right direction.

Clinical Psychiatrist, France

Answer 5

You've done nothing wrong. Life is unpredictable and not fair. No one ever told me life was going to be easy. Heartache and hard times are what makes life. But it's up to you what to make of that. You can't change what happens, you can only change the way you react to it. Buck up, someone always has it worse than you.

Answer 6

Do not worry this is just the way things go in life you have ups and downs, just find some of your good mates and have fun!! it will pass soon enough, and you will be back to your normal self.

Answer 7

When we give a lot of thought and energy to what goes wrong, we attract more negatives. So change your mental attitude and I promise things will get better. Think of all the things you have to be grateful for. This is not b.s., it works.

Answer 8

Probably nothing. My life has hit rock bottom. I have never been a mean or bad person. Life just hates me. It sucks. I have nothing good going at all for me.

Answer 9

May be it's just a test from God, be patient and ask him for help.
OR it could be that you did some sin and God just want to erase it for you with those bad things that happen to you. either way if you are patient you are a winner. be strong.

Answer 10

How the hell am I supposed to know?!