My boyfriend belongs to a site and women email him stating things like wow I have always wanted to come there (where he lives) and see it, you are so interesting, etc. Would you say this is flirting? I feel he spends more time on the computer than with me.
2006-11-04 09:16:49 · 7 answers · asked by Red 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write to me Red, and I'll send you an email, and see how he likes it...
2006-11-05 07:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if he spends too much time in the computer than u should talk to him and if he is not being honest he really does not love u no more.and if u feel like he is telling u the truth
than believe in him and if still is in the computer too much than i guess u should talk to him again but with an angry voice
so he could know how u feel,and if he is telling u something like;" its not my fault and they r the ones who send me the emails and i don't answer back to them i sometimes do but saying that i already have a girlfriend but they still bother me",if he says that, then if u feel like
he is telling the truth then dont let him go on the computer set plans for the saturday and stuff so u guys get more time together
***hope u guys turn out fine***
~good luck~
2006-11-04 09:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd definently throw up a red flag there. He's obviously wanting the attention of other women by doing that, so take that for what you will. There also might be a downright obsession issue if he's with his 'net' people more than his 'real' girlfriend. A serious talk is in order, I think.
2006-11-04 09:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by SBWV09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he spends more time on the computer than with you, unless its for studying or work, then yes there is a problem. Confront him and express your concern.
As for the women, its not so much flirting, it sounds like just compliments of the area and just asking him basic questions.
2006-11-04 09:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gril its not okay. because what he need wit another wed site wit waman when he can have u .your are u talkin to him right . so you well he no good to me if he dont want spends his time wit u. he rather spend time on computer bad
enouth wit another grils
well all got to say is find u a man that going to
put up wit u
from: ya gril jaulina
u can talk to me any time
2006-11-04 09:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by jaulina h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
I am speaking from experience. In this case though it was my ex-wife and her male "friend". If a guy would rather tell his female online friends things, guess what? He's not into you.
Tell him straight up. It's you, the real thing, or it's him, his right hand and his female "friends".
2006-11-04 09:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it OKAY? Are you kidding?
Sure it's okay... as long as you're ready to either be the one he's hiding his "other women" from, or you're ready to kick him to the curb! (That is assuming he's not kicking you there first!)
Please, for your own sake... open your eyes!
2006-11-04 09:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Suzuki_Mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋