I was so scared to fall in love with him cuz i had just had a heart break.. but yet i did... yet i still crymyself to sleep at night... i still hurt... whats wrong i love him right!!! I mean he is in the army i harldy ever see him and his x gives me crap all the time! I really dont know what is wrong why do i cry why do i feel like he is my everything and at the same time my pain.. im so confused... it stresses me that he might go to iraq and that is something that i have grown to be okay with!!but i really odnt know any more!
2006-11-04 09:06:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But i really really dont want to try and live without him and he tells me how much he loves me every nite he gets his phone!
2006-11-04 09:10:41 · update #1
Awww! you poor thing. Well, If it is meant to be, then you are just going to have to accept his work (military). Being in the military is not easy (I have family in the military), it is hard work, and sometimes they don't realize how much people miss them other than when people tell them so. What I am saying is that they are into what the military demands and expects from them, that they don't know the reality of other peoples feelings. I am sure that if he really has a heart and considers you to be his other half, then he probably feels the same way that you feel. I would sit down with him the next time you see him and tell him exactly how you feel. Don't be afraid to show your feelings!!!! At the same time, ask him how he feels about you.
As for his ex...Just tell her to kiss your....bleeep...!
Best of luck to you sweetie!!!
2006-11-04 09:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the old saying love hurts, and that really is true I know the feeling its like your hearts hurt for him and its not a bad thing, I think that when you love something so bad and it hurts that it could be something, Its never wrong to fall in love we all learn from a mistake, god does things to us for a reason not to hurt us, nothing is put on us more than we can bare, just look at it like a stepping stone. And never mind the X shes just jealous you have him she don't so be happy are just make your tears happy tears.
2006-11-04 09:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in love with the wrong guy - end of story. You're stronger than this emotionally - you're a woman - chin up - you're a way better person than he is. He is probably using you - alot of men in the military are fond of doing that to girls. He's a player - give it up!
2006-11-04 09:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well gurl all i can tell u is that if u love him take him back cause i'm sorry to say this if his x gets him back before u then theres nothing u can do but if u get him back before she does then dont' let her give u crap if it comes down to it whoop her or how we say it now a days get even
2006-11-04 09:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by skittles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiddo, don't let these things stress you! Move on! You know, they say now we don't even develop out "wisdom" until we are about 25 or so? Just move on!
2006-11-04 09:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do no longer deserve the term 'friends' in case you inquire from me - fugly and fat? What bitches - who the Hell are they to call him that. in case you like him, this is all that concerns. you need to think of - your happiness or your persons happiness? i think of you need to take a sturdy inspect your persons and see in case you think of they are literally your persons because of the fact they do no longer sound like people i might provide up my boyfriend for. And besides, because of the fact that while has your very own, intimate courting in touch extra desirable than 2 people? it relatively is you and him, no longer you, him and your friends. Bugger them - tell them they are in a position to the two recover from the reality you're with him or they are in a position to piss off. basic as. you have even mentioned, "i myself like" so i do no longer think of you % me to tell you what you already know :) i replaced into on your place as quickly as. I advised her to sod it and that i realised her for the biatch she replaced into. i'm nonetheless with my boyfriend practically 2 years on. Do what you think of is suitable hunny =)
2016-11-27 19:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋