I cant stand when guys sit there and make excuses about why they dont want to be with you. Is it that they dont want to commit or they just cant see them selves with that person. Why do they lead you on and then they come out saying they are not ready to be in a relationship because they dont have time. Why do guys make up excuses?
2006-11-04 09:05:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if a guy does not want to be with you would you rather him tell you thatto your face hurting your feelings or would you rather hear an excuse plus most young guys 16-19 (99%) just want sex and are not trying to be tied down so they make excuses because you want a relationship and they just wanna have fun
2006-11-04 09:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you know he is only blaming you because he hurts so much.Do they know why you miscarry? Try to find out before you get pregnant again. Neither of you need this pain again. Talk about adoption,there are many children out there that need a home. Counseling again is a must. And it does not matter how careful you are honey,you miscarry because either the baby is not right or your body has a problem that no amount of carefulness can fix. I have a friend who miscarried 3 times at 9-10 weeks each time. Her OB sutured her cervix together when she got pregnant again(it was a weak cervix not a congenital problem with the babies)She had the sutures removed at 38 weeks and had her son that night. It may or may not be your problem but you should have a full work up to see what could be wrong. Good luck.
2016-03-19 03:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason is cause they don't want to settle down ...They want to play the field a little. if he's leading you on then apparentlt he wants what he wants then be done with you..So whatever you do..Don't give in. There is many more guys that are looking to be in a relationship, So if that's what your looking for then don't waste your time on playboy.
2006-11-04 09:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by mmarie1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have been taught that they have to play the field --- to "sow their wild oats"
they have also been taught to hold in their feelings be strong
combine these and most guys are afraid to commit to a relationship there is a "maybe the grass is greener" thought -- what if there is someone better i will meet next week???
2006-11-04 09:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not like that, i say wat i have to say and i say wat i mean most of the time, when i do make up excuses for other things, ill admit its normally cuz im embarassed by feelings i have
right now, im doin the exact opposite, im trying so hard to be wit the girl i luv, i have to wait 2 years for a chance :(
2006-11-04 09:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are insecure about themselves, and they are just jerks.
2006-11-04 09:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by Becky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls don't listen to the truth
2006-11-04 09:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows? i feel ur pain...
2006-11-04 09:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋