hi i am married and have one year old daughter,i know my hubby for last 6 year. when beginning he used to beat me a lot whenever i argue with him , when i were pregnant last year i caught him when he called one girl and had sex chat , he apologize and said he wont do it well i trust him , sometimes he do said i am possesive and always suspect him,i am working as part time duty manager in one of retail company ,now my question is i love him so much but i dont know whether he sincere to me or not , i dont know whether can i live without him, please help me and at the same time are all the mans like this
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2006-11-04 09:00:21 · 18 answers · asked by chittu kutty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Married life should not be like that
No-one deserves to be beaten. Full stop.
If I found my husband phoning a sex line, his feet would not touch the ground on the way out of the door.
Respect and look out for yourself, and your baby.
You both deserve better,
Good Luck
2006-11-04 09:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by flossybean 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get out, get out and get out! run fast and slam the door shut behind you!!!! Seriously, you deserve better. he obviously doesn't love you, he wouldn't treat you the way he does/did. You have a young child, you're working, you got a lot to deal with. Have you any friends or family you can turn to for help and advice? No, I'm sure not all men are the same and if you can just get from where you are at right now, to a point you can see that you can have a good future alone for a while, whilst raising your daughter and enjoying life more, with confidence and happiness within you, you will one day find love, 'true' love where the relationship automatically and mutually includes love, respect, trust, understanding, kindness and compassion for one another. Good luck, but do think about getting out of it, try and get yourself some support, no one deserves to be hit or mocked.
2006-11-04 11:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by GalaxyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he had sex chat with some other woman......how do you know that he has not actually done it with one of these women....i bet she's not the only one he has sex talked with....if you feel strong enough then leave him, also he's beaten you so thats not good either...this man seems like he's a control freak and if you argue with him, he beats you....leave him, he's not worth the pain and hurt...who wants to stay in a relationship like that....i certainly wouldn't...find the strength to walk out on this cheating lying bully
2006-11-04 09:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No men are not all like that. Am definately not. If he beats you then leave him now. Yes you can live with out him just Do It. It might be hard at first but it will get better.
2006-11-04 09:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by whatsinaname58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all men are definitely not like this. He hits you? You have a child that sees this?
Well, you don't sound sure if you are happy or not. Are you thinking if you leave him you'll never be with another man again 'cos they're all the same?
Well it is your decision, only you can make this choice.
I would not stay with a man I didn't trust or who ever hit me.
2006-11-04 09:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all men are the same thank god, you need to get out of that relationship before your child thinks it's normal to live in an abusive atmosphere and end's up with a pig of a man to, just remember "if you tolerate this, then your children will be next"
2006-11-04 09:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's beat you before he can do it again. You really need to ask yourself what would be best for you and your daughter.I wouldn't stay in a relationship like that. At the end of the day only you can make this decision
2006-11-04 09:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by feefee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man who beats women rarely stops for long and it's very hard to let go (i know i was a victim for six years) but if you are smart you will trust that he will hurt you again and probably be unfaithful again too unfortunately cheating becomes addictive and is very hard to stop.
you CAN live without him there are many men out there who are not violent and who don't cheat.
good luck
2006-11-04 09:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by whizbang 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is insecure that's why he hit you. and when one is insecure you play about. sorry. it sounds like the two of yous need to go to counselling. i don't think he is ready for a relationship no matter how long you are together. you get used to a situation and accept it as the norm. can you live with your perceived norm. if you can well their is no prob. if you cant try and change it. if you cant do it on your own GET HELP
2006-11-04 09:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by brioduinn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u nuts he used to beat you u do not need a man who used to beat and he might have a chance of cheating on you leave him while your daughter is young so she would not get caught betwwen ya two
2006-11-04 09:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by tykasia32 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋