I'm a young hetrosexual woman in her early 20's in a relationship with two bisexual men also in their early 20's who absolutely love me. I don't understand how anyone could disapprove of our relationship especially my friends and family. We all plan on getting married, I'll marry one of them while the other one will still be living with us so that it's still "legal". I've always had a problem with hetrosexual men since they have their insecurities and are lying unfaithful dogs. I find that bisexual men treat women a whole lot better and loves them much more. My boyfriends only look at me and not at other women since they find them all so "ugly". These are two successful and sexy men who treat me like their precious treasure. They don't have a problem with my modeling unlike my previous hetrosexual boyfriend. I can't wait for us to move in together and start a family. I plan on having each of their children since I love them and they love me.
2006-11-04 08:55:42 · 22 answers · asked by Britney S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do whatever it is that makes you happy, don't worry about what others think.
2006-11-04 08:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Britany, I am deeply afraid that you are a bit detached from the real world or reality if I may say so. You sound as if you have experienced a broken heart a time or two? And this is quite a normal experience. We fall in love, we fall out of love. We think one way about an individual only to discover they are not who we had initially believed they were. Which simply means that we need to be patient in new relationships; we should slowly get to know the other person before letting our guard down, before putting all of our eggs in one basket, before we believe that we have found the absolute perfect person, because you see Britany there is not perfect person nor a perfect relationship. You may not want to admit it, but there is even something imperfect about the relationship in which you are presently apart of. Truly, you deserve more from a loving relationship than what you are now receiving. Your family and friends love you, and would risk telling you the truth, and suffer the consequences rather than lie to you--just so you will not stop coming around them. What's also important is; How will you explain your actions/decisions to your children? What if your Mother had married your father who is bisexual, and then had a second bisexual male lover in the home, and the men had sexual relations with other men, and sometimes each other, and other women every now and again?
What if your Father had married your mother who is bisexual, and then had a second bisexual female lover in the house, and they had sexual relations with other women, each other, and other men every now and again.????
This Britany is why what you are considering is considered wrong in the eyes of many people---because the behavior is immoral.
2006-11-04 09:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by roddy 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
some human beings do basically no longer like it that others are distinctive. they do no longer think of that bisexual all of us is organic , and picture that they are even disgusting. it relatively is basically like an alien dropped interior the midst of a city. human beings cant settle for it, and that they are scared. the situation is that if there is that the form of situation as bisexual human beings, then meaning that this is organic. all of us is likewise very prejudiced and characteristic lots of stereotypes....they have never particularly extensive-unfold a bisexual individual so as that they think of that they are undesirable or somthing......while you're specific approximately it, then persist with your coronary heart. What concerns is which you're happy. you won't be in a position to supply that up basically b/c it will make your persons and relatives happy. edit: see, basically study a number of those comments. they do no longer settle for distinctive perspectives from their own
2016-10-15 09:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by harmon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy is that confusing. anyway so why are you soooo much more special than other women that we are all so ugly? And you do realize that having 2 partners and living with them even if you are only legally married to one is still biggamy and that is illlegal and that aids is a problem you have to worry about more with bisexual persons. Not to mention how are you going to feel if they are doing each other more than you and you start to get a little jealous. Look I have no problem with what you want to do with your life but you cant seriously not understand why your family is not going to like this? Good luck, I hope your situation works out for the best.
2006-11-04 09:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by cjones 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Society has a very set guidelines for what is socially acceptable and what is not. I however believe that if you and your partners are mature, and confident in your relationship decisions all that matters is how the three of you feel. Do remember that two party relationships are hard,so I can only imagine how hard having a third person involved might be. I hope that the three of you find happiness and success, and as long as it works for you don't let anyone Else's opinions keep you down.
2006-11-04 09:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Excuse me? heterosexual males are lying unfaithful dogs? Mis, you've got your head on backwards. First, dating two men at once is wrong, and downright nasty. Especially if they're both bi. If you marry one of them and live together, it may sound okay, but that's adultery. Even if your husband says it's okay. You'd be cheating on your spouce, which is a federal offense. Your friends and family are right, though. What you're doing is just flat out wrong. get a grip on things, and we'll catch you up on life. until then, don't go making any dumb mistakes, and if oyu do, don't ask others what they think. They'll just give you the same answer: that's not cool.
2006-11-04 09:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by badams1990 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
When God made man, He said, "It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make for him a suitable helper." And so He made one woman.
Not another man. Not a woman and a man. Not even two women. Just one. Because that is all he needs.
These men are calling God a liar. They are saying that a man needs both a man and a woman. Both you and they will answer to God for this wickedness on Judgment Day. What will you say to the One who has given you life when He demands an account of you?
2006-11-04 09:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by JSB2 2 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Oh that's not wrong its just not what most of us would consider normal. You know we are all doing one thing... and you decided to do the complete opposite. See? Most of us would think that your decision to date Two not One bisexual male is strange and unusual. But what the hell do we know right? We are just saying you may want to come back to reality that's all. And we will all be here... when your ready Ok.
2006-11-04 09:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by omenus 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well most people frown on having multiple boyfriends as i do but more importantly being involved with a bi sexual person is dangerous (sexually transmitted diseases) and to be involved with two at the same time only doubles the risk!
2006-11-04 09:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by whizbang 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
wow. two bisexual boyfriends who are okay with this. how do you know they aren't in a relationship together? and if they are, having a three-way relationship would be really awkward. are you okay upstairs?
2006-11-04 09:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋