tomorrow i;m gonna ask this wonderful to out on a date but what if she turns me down? what do i say?
2006-11-04 08:44:28 · 19 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about what she says, just be persistent if you have a sincere desire for her.
2006-11-04 08:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by LilRed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be casual. Be cool. Do not try too hard or look too eager. You don't want to scare her away. You don't want to come off as a stalker type. Ask her out to a real laid back kinda place. Do you know what she's in to? That would help. If not, you can always start with coffee (or a drink). If things are going well, ask her if she'd like to go get dinner. See where it goes.
If she turns you down, don't sweat it. Be casual. Be cool. Just say, " Oh, well. That's o.k. Can't blame me for trying. You are really beautiful and you seem like an interesting person. I wish we could have gotten to know each other better. I guess I'd better get to...(school, work, the gym, etc.). Thanks anyway. Bye." And walk away. Do not look back.
Either you move on with your life and look for a new wonderful woman or she realizes you are just too sweet and she's got to get your number. Balls in her court. She just might like that. At least she doesn't think you're a creep and tell all her hot friends to run the other way.
2006-11-04 16:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by soccermomw3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. you do need a plan "b" don't you?
Well, first of all, I would have to tell you to think possitive and pray on it. And when you do ask her, make sure you are looking and smelling good. And make sure you say the right thing like telling her how wonderful she is and it would be an honor if you could take her out.
And if that doesn't work, just say, well, thanks anyway. I just thought I'd ask. But always have in the back of your mind that she might say no. That way, if she does, it won't be a total shock.
howz that?
2006-11-04 17:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she does turn u down dont feel discouraged because it will only make u feel worse instead look at it as "well at least I tried" and in the long run u can't say the coulda, woulda, shoulda,and didnt becuz u would have asked out the wonderful who so ever.
2006-11-04 16:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mizz Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just say nothing ventured nothing gained to yourself and to her say it was worth a try but keep me in mind if you ever wanna go to a movie or get a soda or something..if you do not act badly and pout then even if she does say no I bet you will give her something to think about.
Besides, what if she says yes? That could happen too...I say hope for the best but be prepared for the worst...take the chance and go for it! Good luck hon!
2006-11-04 16:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she says no, ask, "ok how about tomorrow then?" If she says no again, keep asking for another day. If she keeps this up, ask her straight out, "you don't want to go out w/me do you?". the ball's in her court now...
2006-11-04 16:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by aweety69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Ok, but would you consider being just a friend?" Respect her decision and don't chase her if she turns you down.
2006-11-04 16:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even God cannot make all men love Him. As much good as He has done for all of us, most of us reject His call to be saved from our sins and the awful punishment for them (Hell). You are not more powerful than God. Accept this fact and move on.
2006-11-04 16:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by JSB2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say okay then thank you for your time i really thank your wonderful and stuff but im glad were still friends
Celina
2006-11-04 16:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by celina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say: i had to ask you because i wouldnt stop wondering what would you say.it doesnt matter,maybe another time!
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-04 16:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by girl24gr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋