I have been with this guy that i love so much for a little over a year.. we are doing the whole long distance thing and about 3 weeks ago he called another girl that used to be my best friend... he called her and told her he loved her and liked her and wanted to break up with me.. i found out and he played it off like he did nothing wrong.. it really hurt me.. then we both went back to our home town for the weekend and he continued to talk to her and lied to me about it and they made plans to hang out and they didnt ... but on a daily basis he would say he loved me but he just wondered if there was more out there and that he wondered what it was like to be with another girl.. he said he didnd't feel like he was doing ne thing wrong but i felt like it was wrong. I then blame myself for maybe not satisfying him.. am i wrong or is he? what should i do?
2006-11-04 08:42:30 · 7 answers · asked by yowkie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he told her he loved her as a friend not like he was in love with her... and he was also drunk...
2006-11-04 08:54:50 · update #1
hes not good enoughhh for youu...DUMP HIMMM!!!
you can get sooo much better...a guy who LOVES YOU and JUST YOU
2006-11-05 01:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by the coolest person♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can't blame yourself. Second of all the man must not know the meaning of love. I truly don't think you should waste anymore of your time on this guy. And as far as him using the whole "I was drunk" phrase, what a freakin' joke. I've been drunk many times, and I've never told another guy that I loved him. You should be out having a good time, not sitting around worrying or wandering about this jerk who clearly doesn't spend his time thinking only about you...I wish you luck in whatever you choose to do...
2006-11-04 17:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by jrw3571 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time when you think somethings wrong it is if you have a open relationship let him do what he wants you be happy have fun date,hang out with friends you know same thing he"s doing he will miss you when you"re gone if you leave but if you stay he might think he can have his cake and eat it 2 in the mean time follow your heart and be happy in everything you do.
2006-11-04 17:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by brownskin8670 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wondering why he would tell her he loves her and he has been in a relationship with you? Do they live in the same town? Sounds like he wants to play the field. You need to decide if you want to share. Personally I will not. It is either all or none.
2006-11-04 16:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by wondering1960 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is clearly in the wrong here. As hard as it may be, you need to let this one go. He is not to be trusted and will only break your heart.
2006-11-04 16:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen.. your friend might be lying 2 u or ur bf might be lying 2 u.. u just gotta trust what u think and dont go with the wrong decision.. i wouldnt dump him or anything unless u have proof.. like pics, vids, etc... but listen, dont get all caught up in him and dont get really really attached cuz he might be the one lying and then when ya'll broke up it'd hurt even worse..
e-mail and tell me wat happens and if ya'll work out
free2playhappy34@yahoo.com
2006-11-04 16:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by free2playhappy34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont blame yourself hes not good enough for you if he would do something like that.
2006-11-04 16:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by luckyxlovee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋