I am 24 years old - lately I have been loving more than anything to get out and live it up! AND I have been sooo damn horny....I dont get it? I was NEVER like this. Now I want it all the time. My boyfriend is 31 and he only gives me what I need like once a week, which simply isn't enough for me. I have spoken with him about me buying toys for the other 6 days of the week that I want to feel alive - and he hates the idea. It makes him feel very uncomfortable that I want to masturbate at all. It's better then getting it from somewhere else right? What the hell am I supposed to do?
P.S. I couldn't find a proper category for this - so I put it here!If you don't like what you are reading, please don't bother answering. Thanks!
2006-11-04 08:36:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, 30 is your sexual peak, supposedly, so maybe you're just hitting a peak now. Or you're just horny. I mean does it matter why? Your boyfriend needs to chill on the masturbation. I masturbate daily, so what? It doesn't mean you don't love him but it does mean that you are wanting to be satisfied more than he is providing you with. You need to explain to him that that's not necessarily a bad thing, but that you just like to be satisfied a lot, so why not masturbate? Also, I think you should just buy the toys. You know how he feels about them, which is good. BUT that doesn't mean that you still can't get them. I mean he's just not giving you an out, here. He's not willing to compromise. So, masturbate all you want, and use your toys, and if he's happier not hearing about it, you don't have to share those details with him by any means.
2006-11-04 08:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 21⤊ 3⤋
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I am 24 years old - lately I have been loving more than anything to get out and live it up! AND I have been sooo damn horny....I dont get it? I was NEVER like this. Now I want it all the time. My boyfriend is 31 and he only gives me what I need like once a week, which simply isn't enough for...
2015-08-16 14:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell, I'm 61 and I'm horny all the time. I thought things would calm down by now but it hasn't. I want it all the time and it's all I think of. I'm divorced and the lady I see is only available about twice a month. I want it twice a day. Does anyone else my age have this problem?
2016-02-01 12:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by Zane 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, at your age its normal to be horny all the time. I'm also 24 years old and me and my girlfriend goes at it on average 5 times/week. If I had it 1/week I would definitely be horny ALL THE TIME TOO! Prior to my current relationship, I was in your situation and felt that i was gonna blow. You should definitely talk to your boyfriend about the toy issue, I know some guys who uses toys with their girlfriends and they don't mind at all.....
2006-11-04 08:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Reggae Fever 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry dear, you're normal. We all have different sex drives. I've been married a long time, and never had all I want, or feel I need. Do I masturbate. Hell yeah. I'd go nuts and my health would go down hill if I didn't. Put it to your boyfriend that's it's a toy, or a boy. Tell him you'll be decreed, if it bothers him that much. Don't ever feel like there's something wrong with you. You're healthy.
2006-11-04 08:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by flip4449 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
play with yourself in the shower. Put the power shower on a low setting and spray the water on yourself in a circular motion... feels amazing, and will definitely help with ur horniness!
2016-03-16 23:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You march to a different drummer. people change as they grow older, perhaps in the near future your BF would match your needs or you slow down to match his.
You and I matches, and my wife matched his. So I understand your frustration. Strangely enough, getting a surrogate GF to fill the gap never occurred to me. Perhaps because the advantage of doing that was not commensurate to the disadvantages.
Dumping your BF is no assurance the next BF would do better. So do a comparative analysis, you might find keeping him is the better course. My wife passed away over a year ago, and I have no current plan to get a GF right away.. if I do get the urge, I am not confident I would do better than you. Match making is crap shoot dear.
2006-11-04 09:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
That's tough if you and your guy aren't on the same page,and your sex drives will probably always differ.You can meet your own needs with the toy ideas-altho' it doesn't sound as if he'll even participate!-or search for someone more compatible.You are young and need to enjoy yourself this way.Go for it!
2006-11-04 08:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
hmm, most of the time its us guys that are horny. Man you're boyfriend doesn't know how lucky he is. I'll give it everyday, but thats me. Just try to tell him, give him what he wants and maybe he will give you a nice return
2006-11-04 08:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by Timmy Mic 1 · 13⤊ 1⤋
This category works!
I do not understand him being jealous of toys...if you wanna masturbate you should be able to do that and besides, you will be much less tempted to stray...he should keep that in mind...
I say go ahead and get a few toys and tell him that you want him to watch you while you pleasure yourself. It might just turn him on as well and you might get more intimate time with him...good luck!
2006-11-04 08:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋