My exboyfriend and I are friends right now. He was a really good boyfriend for me. I was really happy with him. He loved me but he just didnt want to admit to himself that he loved me. I tried getting it through his head that he loved me but he just didnt want to admit it. We spent an hour and an half last night being really touchy feely with each other last night. We acted like we were still dating each other. I mean yes I love him, want to be with him and he was the guy of my dreams. I mean if he didnt love me or at least like me he would have told me to stop touching him and would have left? What should I do?
2006-11-04 08:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably don't want to hear this but...I don't think he loves you, I think he likes you and he was probably horny. If I was you I would just keep him as a friend and start dating other people and leave my options open. Good luck.
2006-11-04 08:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by Evangeless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try talking to him about what he really wants from you, and your relationship? Does he want to be friends or more???? These are questions that you both are going to want answered, they will either make you or break you!!!! And really because you guys have been together, he may be kinda touchy feely because being together brought you closer to one another!!! But on the other hand he may not wanna just be friends!!!! You should talk to him about how you feel and how he is making you feel with the mix-feelings he is giving you!!! Then ask him how he feels and what he wants??? Friends or more???????? WELL I HOPE THIS HELPS, GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-11-04 16:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by cheerpunk2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man cannot admit to himself how he feels then how can you expect him to admit it to you. I really believe in the saying that men dont know what they have got till its gone. I know what its like to have the guy of your dreams there and not get the response you want, cool off, and back off if he loves you believe me your playing it cool will hit him harder than a snow shovel and he will come running! Just dont be fooled, and let him use you, some men are great at lying believe me!
2006-11-04 16:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys aren't always as emotional as woman. While he treats you wonderfully, and you believe that he loves you he may not. A woman in love always wants to believe that the man she loves loves her in return. As a guy the physical aspect of love is not as meaningful as it may be to you. (not all men are like this) He may have feelings for you that he's not ready to accept, but until he does you should set ground rolls and remain just the friend. In the end it's your heart that's going to get stepped on not his. Good luck
2006-11-04 16:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you possibly make a mistake and end up hurt, you should talk to him, find out where he stands and tell him where you stand. If you do pursue a relationship with him again, try building the relationship based on friendship.
2006-11-04 16:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Leo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey he does he is just scared and don push it on him it is a turn off that will drive him away so just be happy where your at and in time he will admit it
2006-11-04 16:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell someone how they feel. I think that you should just stop wasting your time on this guy.
2006-11-04 16:29:22 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a boy doesn't leave when a girl is touching him - it would be crazy to pass up a chance for sex...
drop him
2006-11-04 16:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you've go me so confused with your babaling i realy dont know how to help you! if its meant to be it will be if not then you go your seperate way's lifes a bitchman
2006-11-04 16:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋