there is this guy and i am in love with him and my best friend knows how much he means to me and she told him she loved him!and the worst part is he loves her back! i wish i could just cut out my heart to make the pain stop.i feel like im dying!and i told her all this and she still wants to be with him! i dont want them to be together but if they love each other i dont want to be responsible for keeping them apart!im torn between my heart and my friend wat should i do?!!??!?!?!
2006-11-04 08:25:58 · 24 answers · asked by angelofdeath3993 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of us have been in a situation similar to this..dont interfere in your friends relationship..they are happy you just have to accept it..you need a boyfriend of your own and then you will be ok.
2006-11-04 08:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 06:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by oleyar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down, he doesn't love you. You love your friend right? Right. You want what's best for both of them and you of course. Right? Ok, the best thing to do is to wait. They will probably go out, but if their relationship works out, then you know it was meant to be for them! If they break up, then you may have a chance with him. Don't worry. Let me guess, HS? You're too young to be worrying about this stuff.
2006-11-04 08:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r not 2 young then this is very simple. I love alot of women but am n love with one and only seeing one. there is a big difference. If u old enough then y not just be open and the 3 of u hook up? It could open your eyes to alot of things in this big world.
2006-11-04 08:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by ifnotynotjuan113 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth hurts..as a guy my opinion is if you truly loved him all you'd want is the best for him girl.but if you and him are an item then she's not a true friend.i'm going through the same thing in my life hope it's getting better. honesty is always the best policy so just talk to him and her, get their feelings.you got to be strong and see what would be best for these people you love. let me know how you got on :) xo
2006-11-04 08:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way is express u love in a piece of letter and give it to this guy but make sure when u write the letter at the end of letter u say this word i am just expressing my love to not to split u both and say my love is PURE, hmmmm maybe will work out will pray for u
2006-11-04 09:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by chittu kutty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he love you back?
Sounds like "best" and "friend" are terms that have been abused by this girl and if she wants to risk losing that status she's going about it the right way. If the guy knows about your feelings for him and he has still gone for her, it might be a sad way of telling you his feelings for you.
Either way, its rotten of her. Of both of them. Talk to them and tell them what you feel. Either talk to him alone, or talk to them together and judge their reaction.
Its not like you're going to hop into bed with the two of them, are you? Are you?
2006-11-04 08:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by NotsoaNonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves her back there is nothing you can do about that. You gotta decide if you can live w/them being together. Seeing them together everyday will be hard...but if you really do love him, you'll want him to be happy so move on. Chuck it up to another lesson in life...heartbreak. Find someone else to love who'll love you back. Good luck.
2006-11-04 08:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by aweety69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let them get on with it. Then drink a lot for a few months. Or sit there every night with little voodoo dolls of them, sticking pins in the eyes! lol.
2006-11-04 08:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Peter W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy what you feel, if he doesn't understand, forget him and look for someone else, and as for the best friend, it turns out she isn't your best friend, just go to the guy and tell him (in Private), that you have feelings for him, if he doesn't like you don't feel bad, but be his friend, so you can still remain in contact with each other, and gradually he may have feelings for you, also keep your 'best friend' as your friend and not your enemy, or you may have to deal with more than you bargained for
-hope this helps.
2006-11-04 08:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by nothingspecial 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋