im not ugly or nasty but i never seam to get nice genuine lads?! i mean alot of guys text me and i have loads of male friends but when it comes to boy friends they just seam to get bored with me after a few weeks (sometimes days),
i asked my male friend kev why the other day and he said its because im too much like a good mate to guys, do you think this is true?
im only twenty so im not after anything heavy but would like a boyfriend.
xxxxxxx
2006-11-04 08:25:13 · 29 answers · asked by vixon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not to worry being yourself often makes it hard for people because your not the stereotypical woman who subscribes to being a fashion slave or being the woman they want you to be ..........so my advice is be yourself never change for anyone and my motto is and always has been ''work like you don't need the money , dance like no one is watching you , and make love like you're being filmed'' ........have fun i always do. x
2006-11-04 08:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Relax, and enjoy going out with your mates! It doesn't sound like there is anything wrong with you. Kev wasn't just being nice, and not mentioning that you smell or anything?
By the law of averages, the more you go out the more likely you are to meet someone a bit special, but also think about where you go out, and what sort of guy you want to meet. Rugby matches are laways good - all the players are pretty decent off the pitch, so get yourself along and cheer your support on a saturday afternoon and pick the one you like the most. Easy really.
2006-11-04 08:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Matt 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel. I'm in the same boat as you. Just be patience and the guy will come. As they say good things happen to those who wait, so just wait it out some more and that great guy you are looking for will appear. Don't change a thing about yourself. If guys only think of you as a friend now then it's ok. There will be a guy who not only will he think of you as a friend, but he will want to be with you. Good luck and hope I helped.
2006-11-04 08:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by just another girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I keep on asking the same question? why am I single, I am not one of those typical guys in general and I want a relationship.
I am not ugly either
I want my Gf to be a best mate too, so being pally should not be a problem really. Infact its a turn on. So my guess is that you are not finding the right people. Where are you from
2006-11-04 22:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by sija_uk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it isn't you it's your attitude. if you want a man then you got to decide which type and go with it. if you want a jock be prepared for a lot of drinking, spending time with his mates, belching and generally all the stuff anthropomoprhisists get queer about.
If you want a lovely romantic man then put up with shitty msuic tastes, lack of sex drive and a someone who doesn't really give a **** about anything beyod narcissism.
If you want a lad, a real mans man. then you have a bit of a beating once in a while, pissed up every other night, the pages of PHoawr!! magazine accross your living room floor and knowing that if he sees your mates he WILL try to sleep with them.
Basically, your screwed. all the good uns are gay or taken
2006-11-04 08:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know what you mean. I'm a single guy who's less then a month from 21 and one month of dating is all I got on my record. It just takes time. I too get anxious about my love life, but all I cand do is be myself. If you try to hard, then that might backfire. You need to just relex, and you'll know when mr. right comes along. You're not alone, I'm still waiting for mrs. right lol.
2006-11-04 08:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Timmy Mic 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you were 10 or 20 years older love I'd worry....
You are a fine catch. Leave it there.
They will be beating down the door one day.
Just an age thing love. You are what full grown men will want.
OK they prolly want it now from you too.. 8^)
Ignore those blokes stay somewhat close to your own age.
2006-11-04 08:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear friend u will find a boyfriend for your self when the time reach
don't be in hurry u must find some one to want u how u are ,he must understand u the boys that u say are bored i think they are unable to understand u.
also try to check what did u do that maybe a reason of that actions
2006-11-04 08:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At your age guys are usually happy to play the field..they are not ready to settle down yet.
2006-11-04 08:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to hear this, but it sounds like you have plenty of time, no problems relating to people, and in fact have a good life. I would enjoy it for now, as serious relationships bring responsibilities.
2006-11-04 08:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by filmwatcher59 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋