I was just wondering if it is appropriate for a girl who likes another guy who knows she likes him--for her to give him a christmas gift. Thing is we don't get a chance to talk much and I'm not sure if giving him a gift is going too far too soon. It won't be a big gift just maybe a--i dont know. I'll figure it out. But is it appropriate? What will the gift say to him? I'm 16. if it's okay can anyone suggest a gift?
2006-11-04 08:13:34 · 6 answers · asked by Ahhh....Me Time 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then how bout a christmas card? is that ok?
2006-11-04 08:20:45 · update #1
Actually thats a VERY great thing to do,it'll tell him that you like him and get him something that interests him or even casually ask him one day what he's hoping to get on Christmas!
Good Luck!
2006-11-04 08:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he a schoomate? If so, maybe you could bake some cookies to give to several friends, and include him along with the others.
Or, in one class I had, someone brought in little packets on the last day of school before the break. They were made of red cellophane and had a few pieces of candy (some chocolate, some not) and a small favor (she used miniature disco balls, but you could use something else... something that expresses your personality or something kind of generic, like a cute cheapish key chain. Tie it with a colorful or metallic ribbon.
If he sees you with a whole bunch of them to give out, he'll know you like him but neither of you will have to feel self-conscious. You could even make the one for him special by including something just for him that only you would know was different from the others.
Or, a card-- slightly humorous but not too goofy or corny-- is always a "safe" way to express an interest in someone.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
2006-11-04 16:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Switch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him something that is not to big.think twards a homade gift like a cookie.guys like cookies.but if you do not want to come on to strong you could not give just him a present you could give like a couple of you closest friends presents also.then it would be like a friend to friend thing.not a crush thing.i hope you like the answer and i hope if you take my advice it works out.
2006-11-04 16:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by CC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give a gift. If you give a gift, it may be interpreted as weird.
2006-11-04 16:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dream hit the nail on the head... he may think you are obsessed or trying to buy him over
2006-11-04 16:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by Ring Ring Ring Bananaphone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendly gift.
o.k.
2006-11-04 16:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋