this boy in my school he is totally crushing on me he even calls me baby and he also calls me sexy lady and i am only 11 years old i'll be twelve in january the first and all my friends think he is cool but i don't like him and he passes me love notes in class and get me in trouble and if i don't get help soon i may die.
2006-11-04 08:00:16 · 14 answers · asked by foune d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
key to dealing with this kind of stuff is brutal honesty
if he doesn't back off get a big stick and beat him with it - always works for me
2006-11-04 08:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy seems sincere, try to be gentle with him. This guy, however, seems to have plenty of friends and is not sincere. If he's calling you sexy lady-he's not worth letting down gently. Get your point across-don't be rude, just tell him you dont like him and don't want him referring to you so. I've had to do the same thing. He's not worth worrying over.
2006-11-04 08:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, that while you're flattered, you're just not ready to be in a relationship. Then mention that you'd appreciate it if he would quit passing you notes and calling you his pet names, because it makes you feel uncomfortable and because you don't want to get in trouble with the teachers. Then if it doesn't stop, tell the teacher or an adult that you can trust.
2006-11-04 08:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by hopeihelped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost. You are not interested. Be blunt and to the point. Some boys (most) at that age are so inmature that hinting wont do it, Just come out with it. Just say NO!
2006-11-04 08:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Or a teacher. Or your parents. Or BOTH! If none of that works, get a guy friend to beat him up. Good luck!
2006-11-04 08:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a male friend or gaurdian to help you convey this message to him. He will drop the issue with no harsh feelings, i promise.
2006-11-04 08:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
11? Stop him now! He is out of control for that age.
If absolutly neccesary in public.
He needs to learn control.
It is a hard lesson.
2006-11-04 08:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him about how you feel and if he keeps bothering you tell the teacher. You don't have to put up with that especially in school!!
2006-11-04 08:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you got any friends in school who are boys? that could tell him for you or maybe a teacher who could help!
2006-11-04 08:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to back off your to young to date. if that doesn't work tell mom and dad.
2006-11-04 08:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by lonely n.y. girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋