if someone told you that if his family would approve of you he would really want to date you but that they would not approve
2006-11-04 07:59:38 · 13 answers · asked by Gabrielle 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would understand AND be insulted! First, I would understand that the person is unwilling to do anything against his parents wishes - i.e. "A good son". - Next, I would understand that he is incapable of doing anything without his parents "blessing". - i.e. "A wimp". - next, I would be insulted that people have "labeled" me of being unworthy of their consideration as being a good, decent, honest person.
Under any circumstance, the whole bunch doesn't sound very open-minded, nor enlightened about those who "don't travel in their circles and don't meet their standards, without even knowing a person".
Sorry, but I have to vote "thumbs down" because of the stated reasons. -- I'd like to add that you seem to consider yourself "unworthy" to even ask the question. -- Trust me - The fact that you asked the question shows that you are not only intelligent, but knowing of others feelings, prejudices and hang-ups.
I wish you well in your pursuit of this relationship, but I doubt it will be a happy endeavor.
Bust regards,
John
2006-11-04 08:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by poormigalito 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a boy says his family would not approve of me, then I would not date him. That is the worse situation that I would not want to be in. Find another boy , who's family is not so center orientated. Good thing to find out , before the first date. He is not worth it anyway to say something like that. Nothing would be good enough for him or his family. Sounds like a bunch of snobs.
2006-11-04 08:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds either like a cultural thing or that their family has disapproved of another relationship he had. I certainly would not be offended as I wouldn't want to create any type of problem within the family setting and/or be a cause of any form of stive within the family.
2006-11-04 08:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he was looking for a way out...........If a man is truly into a woman, wouldn't matter one lick if his family approves or disapproves.
2006-11-04 08:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could care less about whether some one approves of me or not. Never have, never will.
2006-11-04 08:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by RIDLEY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it potential which you have been an twist of fate and that the condom broke or didnt paintings or something like that so your beginning wasnt meant to ensue and the certificates is 'an apology from the condom production unit' if somebody reported this to you dont hear to them nonetheless
2016-10-03 06:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like someone is holding on to their family a little too much.
2006-11-04 08:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could you tell us why they would not approve
2006-11-04 08:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be insulted but it's because i'm quite sensitive to being accepted and all, it depends on each person.
2006-11-04 08:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be insulted,i am very soft hearted to begin with and that would be pretty crushing
2006-11-04 08:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋