I continue to get cheated on is it me or is it them.
2006-11-04 06:52:02 · 7 answers · asked by shonnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If u meet the true love from a good man u will not hurt.
I will pray to Allah for u to find this
keep urself from false love and be sure first.
2006-11-04 07:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by shamshona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at all of these people as the practice run before the real thing. If you keep getting cheated on, perhaps you keep dating the same type of person. Next time, date the opposite type of person you'd usually date. Each time you date, take the good qualities you liked from the last person and find someone with those similar qualities...but make sure they don't have all the BAD qualities of your ex.
Also, you don't say much, but it all depends on the rules you set in the beginning, whether or not you were dating exclusively, etc.
2006-11-04 06:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they are the ones doing the cheating, then it's them. What you need to do is not fall in love so fast. I know it's hard. I'm trying to do it myself. I'm 32 yrs. old now. And I found somebody that I'm in love with. And we want to take it very slow. Because when you take relationships slow, you not only end up w/friendship, but w/the love of your life. My advice would be to kind of hold back on falling in love if you can. Let him fall in love w/you first.
2006-11-04 07:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to fall in love and get hurt. It's both you and them. You pick the wrong people to be with. They make the wrong choices like cheating.
2006-11-04 06:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
And No.
Do you know what love is? What it means? Are you ready or mature enough? Do you understand love is NOT sex? Do you wonder why these things keep happening to you, but you don't know why?
To be cheated onmeans that you have 'fallen in love' too easily and too quickly. Take your time and think things through next time.
2006-11-04 06:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by The Mystic One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Them......they always cheat.....you have to learn to live with the fact or leave them.
2006-11-04 06:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because you are walking through the same way always. next time, change the road and you win the race.
2006-11-04 07:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋