i really need to know ppl. This gurl who ive bn chatting to for quite some time, who ive been to lunches with,and dinners....and also who textes me like 40times a day, jst texted saying she broke it off with her man, we both really likeeach other. I went to movies with her yesterday, but didnt kiss her.........she showed me signs she wanted to though. i just hugged heaps at the movies and showd me feelings towards her....we ended the night just saying bye, as she just only broke up with her man, and it didnt feel right to go after her just then, since we both really really like each other. Im scared she will move on if i dont do anything soon though, im so sure she wanted that kiss, bt i didnt budge!was i bad for doing this?
2006-11-04 06:44:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are in a tough spot. What I call the Rebound spot. Be honest. Tell her you really like her, but you are not sure what to do because she did just break up with her ex. Tell her you are not afraid to be her boyfriend, but you don't want to be a rebound guy for her either. Atleast it shows you are honest, thinking of her fellings, and not just looking for a quick fling.
2006-11-04 06:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by atkirk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This girl is playing. I know what I will be telling you, you will feel bad. But, dear, just forget her, there is no girl lacking on this planet earth. How can she be with you and with another man and say she just broke off.....we girls enjoy doign it, which means she is not at all interested to you. You did the right thing. Kiss or no kiss wouldnt have mattered!
2006-11-04 06:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean , you have been seeing her, even when she had a boyfriend? What if you stay with her and she does the same thing to you? Think about it. But as i always say, everybody deserves a chance. Who knows, she might be Miss Right for you. Give it a shot, but don't come back crying..lol..
2006-11-04 11:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-09 02:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not bad. It is good to take time between relations. Perhaps explain this to her also, that it is a good idea to take some time after a break up, assure her that you like her and are flattered she likes you but want to go less fast.
2006-11-04 06:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by opinionative_1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Feeling should be shown on the spot, without waiting for days.
Who goes to whom who knows.
who leaves whom & when & for what & for why, not known.
After all life is a game, play it isay.
Yours is not a big problem.
2006-11-04 13:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
U R really determined to have her BECAUSE U R the person who loved her than the other person so U must propose it to that girl and must try to get her answer also.
2006-11-04 13:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey you were right in doing that.....but me thinks you should show your feelings as soon as possible..dont be scared....as they say its better to love and lose than not to be loved at all...at the most she will say NO....but at least you would have tried.....so go ahead ...and best of luck
2006-11-04 14:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by r a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is the best chance. Dont wait for her to open her mind. Tell her what is in your heart.
2006-11-04 21:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to start showing your feelings right away or risk losing her.
2006-11-04 06:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋