s no difference. Who is right, and where can we buy one or find a good patttern to make one.
2006-11-04 06:40:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When there are holes there is less of a cushion of air.
2006-11-04 06:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Barkley Hound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinky. But yes, the ones with holes do sting more. They could still use paddles when I was in school and they weren't wimpy little ping-pong paddles. They were substantial slats of wood, made in the wood shop. You could tell the mean teachers because they had holes in theirs. Get a piece of wood at least 1/2 inch thick and 4 to 6 inches wide, 20 to 24 inches long. Round off the edges and corners, shape a handle at one end. Holes were 1/2 to 1 inch staggered down the center of the paddle. This wasn't a precision instrument.
They made you empty out your back pockets, too.
2006-11-04 14:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A paddle with holes will sting more. The holes in the paddle allow air through, negating some of the air resistance, allowing for a faster swung paddle which results in a harder hit.
2006-11-04 14:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by J D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you enjoy pain. And you enjoy the out of the ball park control- power issues that your bf has.
Do what you want, but bewear guys who like to leave a good patern are sooooooooooo controlling and so insecure that they feel that they need to mark their women in order to show their power and ownership.
I always figure what two adults agree to do in their bedroom is no ones business as long as they agree and as long as it doens't involve children, animals, or danger to the life & wellbeing or their self or partner.
Leaving a mark is up there with the injury is up there with taking care of your well being. If it were just a spank or mild paddling then that is ok , but if a mark if left it means you are being hit way too hard. You are also young enough to think that this is ok .
If you let a man control you so much in the bedroom, you will let him control and punish you in your day to day life. Eventually he will become abusive. He will become so controlling in your day to day life that you will feel like you can't breath without his permission.
Beware of controlling men who feel that they need power. There will most likely be some sort of abuse in his life.
I know you feel love for him and want to please him. All of us have people in our lives whom we love, but we can't be with.
Someone so controling and power hungry is someone you shouldn't be with.
He will eventually beat you up because of his insecurities.
What sort of woman/girl are you? Do you stick with a man who bullies you JUST becasue you need to be with a man?
Is your own family life so horrible that being hit by a guy just how you see the world. It isn't ok for a woman to be submissive to a man so much that she allows him to hit her with a paddle until there are marks.
You might not agree with me now.....but I do hope that what I have said will stick in your brain and that eventually you will see his battering for what it is.
Did you know that there are men in the world that don't batter?
Men who don't hit you and expect you to be marked. There are men who don't verbally abuse a woman nor exert their power
until the woman is drainned of all her power and individuality.
Don't let any man define you. Don't allow a man to take away who you are. Find a man who sees who you are and builds your up as a person.
2006-11-04 15:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
either table tennis paddle or a paddle ball paddle both work really well.
2006-11-04 14:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try it out for yourself?
2006-11-04 14:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋