If your girl/boyfriend and sister/brother had an affair?
2006-11-04 06:29:50 · 25 answers · asked by toietmoi 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would forgive but i would be weary of it happening again, the trouble is that when something like this happens the trust is broken, and unfortunately trust is the hardest thing to get back once you have lost it.
If i was in love with this person than i would like to think that i would forgive and forget but i would only be able to do it once, If it happened again than i would have to say no way. If i had gained the trust level back and it happened again i know i could not trust for the third time.
2006-11-04 07:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always forgive--holding onto anger only hurts you more. NEVER forget--If someone is willing to hurt you once they prob will again. You can choose whether to continue a relationship with someone or not. You can also choose what kind of relationship you will have with them now, after the fact.
I lost a long time friend due to an incident with her and my brother. They were both wrong but in the end, my family is my family. I may not agree with how they live their lives but I will love them regardless. The friend is gone and my brother is still in my life--although the relationship is different now.
2006-11-04 06:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by c m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband slept with my sister I would never forgive my sister cause she should know better. As for my husband, well, I guess I would have to forgive him at some point because we have kids together. If we didn't have kids then I'd kick his butt and would kick him to the curb.
2006-11-04 06:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by bdub25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you would forgive the sister or brother before the boyfriend or girlfriend. but actually you don't have to forgive any of them
2006-11-04 06:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by katyclover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive my sister in time, but my boyfriend NEVER. Family will always be your family but guys come and go.
2006-11-04 07:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find is completely disrespectful for people to cheat on one another...Now for blood doing that to you, hmmmm i don't think i could forgive...It is an unwritten law, at least in my family, if one dates someone, they are now considered off limits...This saves headache and heartache...No one in my family has ever done anything like this to another...
2006-11-04 16:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need more info, but it happened that my brother-in-law hit on both of us sisters-in-law, with no success. I think he saw things in each of us he liked, still no excuse.
2006-11-04 06:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by tagette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, because if he/she really loved me.. he/she wouldn't have to look for another lady..
especially knowin that when u love some1..
they willl do what ever humanaly possible to keep it all good..
i know that if my man started to get bored w/ me..
i'd try new things in our relationship..
thats whats so crucial..
communication..
ow will they know if somethin needs to be changed..
if no1 says anything??
and ur sis... or bro... should already know how much he'she means to u..
and thats just extrememly low of them..
because it was ur partner..
like there isn't enough ppl in this world..
for them to find thier own partner
2006-11-04 06:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by LonelyChica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend because that would hurt me the most and show just how little love and respect he has for me.
2006-11-04 06:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by donnabbb43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd forgive but keep distance
2006-11-04 06:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by Mara D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋