a smart, independent,cute,nice,funny guy .?
or am i just dreaming, and wishing?
because from my experiences all i see are horny guys.
or maybe im not looking in the right places?
if so where are the right places?
2006-11-04 06:16:21 · 17 answers · asked by IVE GOT A SECRET 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
resi6 im done with bad boys. ive never been intrested in them. well not really. but i cant attract anything but bad boys. and if i do attract a nice guy he's to shy to say so. thats the problem
2006-11-04 06:26:48 · update #1
I can say that your are indeed wishing. Guys like this are out there. Places that you might look are places that you would think a guy might hang out at (that fits what you're looking for). If you like a smart guy, maybe a coffee shop, or a book store.
2006-11-04 11:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
But we're told we're boring, etc.
See most "nice guys" well we open doors for ladies, tell them that we'd like to be with them, etc. Some woman like the challenge of the "bad boy", the guys with Roman hands and Russian fingers. The guys that they cry themselves asleep at night thinking about while checking the phone and not answering that "nice guy" who's calling them on the phone.
So, if you really want a "nice guy" go for the ones that are not the best conversationalists. The guys who are paying attention to you and not trying to play a game by looking away an making you fell that you have to earn them.
I'll tell you when I'm not caring what the ***** in front of me is saying and she can go away so I can talk to her friend, she's easy. It's when I'm trying to be nice that I might as well hang a dead skunk around my neck and write "Luser" on my forehead(yea I know I spelled loser wrong - it's part of it).
2006-11-04 06:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Same problem as finding a nice girl, - female. You find them where they can be found, but that isn't advertised anywhere... ;-)
The tough truth is, there is no specific place, but you may want to look in places that have or allow to do things YOU are interested in. Guys there will have at least similar interests.
Then there are people (like me) that are most comfortable at home. I would love to find a woman who is the same in that, but how? Going from door to door asking women whether they like to stay home and do fun things and then if they are available, is no solution... Oh well... :-(
2006-11-04 06:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's no longer approximately being a effective guy or a dick. you probably can take care of ladies persons respectfully and on the comparable time have administration over those circumstances. the trick is to no longer positioned your coronary heart on your sleeve plenty. make it seem as in case you have innovations, are busy, have a great style of issues to do, and so on. be greater detached to how women persons take care of you and additionally you will see your adventure with women persons remodel. women persons do unlike wimps! REPEAT!! women persons like self belief! REPEAT!! so which you do no longer would desire to be a jerk according to se. yet you do would desire to be a guy, and which potential no longer whining approximately no women desire to get with you and how romantic and candy you're. act such as you are the **** and if all and sundry else does not see it there would desire to be something incorrect with them.
2016-10-03 06:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are nice guys left, clubs, bars is the last place to look. Places where he works, he shops you may find them, but usually they are quiet and are over-looked.
2006-11-04 06:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure is. Plenty of us out here. But you wont ever notice us. Women cant see the good guys because they cant see past the bad boys they love so much.
2006-11-04 06:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
nice guys are usually the quiet ones.
they're not easy to find...
most women i know go out with real jerks and i'm not sure why they are even attracted to them in the first place.
what are you attracted to in a man and why?
maybe realising these things will help you to find a different kind of guy.
good luck.
look at church.
2006-11-04 06:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think all the nice guys are gay. Good for men but bad for women
2006-11-04 06:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those guys are out there somewhere but most of them are gay! LOL
Not sure where to tell you to look but bars and nightclubs are not the places to be looking! I do know that much.
2006-11-04 06:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could always look in like... Michael Jackson's bedroom. I'm sure there are lots of little boys who aren't horny in there.
2006-11-04 06:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋