hi, i am a 15 year old boy and i met this girl we've been together for about a week and just yesterday we went to see a scary movie together and french kissed throughout basically the whole thing...and i just want to know how could i tell her that we are moving a bit too fast and would like to slow things down a bit without upsetting her or give her the wrong impression making her think that i want to break up with her or something...help please. and i want to have a LONG relationship
2006-11-04 06:12:45 · 8 answers · asked by djm12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her know just what you feel.
You are a young gentleman with good judgement is sounds like
Tell her you would like to make the relationship last , and that you want to SLOW it down.
If she reacts as if she is being rejected, then that is her own issue, and that there will be plenty more unfolding as the relationship continues.
2006-11-04 06:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by annie_bananie066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to do this is to make it look like you are the bad guy. If you are afraid of how she would react, just say something like,
"Baby, you know that I think your really ******* fine and all, but we gotsta slow it down, cause Im a man and I got hormones, but I know that your virginity (considering she is a virgin, if not say your honor) is worth alot more than just a few minutes of pleasure, and I'd rather have a lifetime of joy with you."
>>> VERY IMPORTANT <<< BE HONEST ABOUT IT
2006-11-04 06:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be true but do not break her heart say something like this
" you know what (what ever her name is) i think that we are going a little to fast and we need to slow it down but dont take it the wrong way i just feel that i respect u to much to get in your pants so fast and i want to wait so letts go slow and see were that takes us." and that might work
2006-11-04 06:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by the helper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shifting too rapid. this could be a word that I extremely disagree with. Foundations of a dating: have confidence, loyalty, compatibility, mutuality, understanding, communique, an open coronary heart and recommendations, faith and love. shifting too rapid (bodily) ought to theoretically no longer have an result on the dating. the sole way a dating could be affected is that if a bite of the commencing place is lacking. enable's view the choice spectrum. Saving intercourse until marriage no count how long it takes. intercourse is an substantial area of a dating to construct the intimacy along with your significant other. however the persons that wait to have intercourse are prepared to attend by using fact why? by using fact they think of that they are somewhat worth waiting on. Why is this? by using fact they have already got their dating commencing place favourite to the ingredient that intercourse isn't a controversy. shifting to rapid or too sluggish ought to truly have no result on the dating, merely the backside of the dating can influence the dating.
2016-12-28 12:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello djm12,
You were only french kissing. Most girls love to kiss, so you'd better get used to that, and take this opportunity to learn how to do it better. You aren't going to be going to third base any time soon. Trust me. Don't worry about it.
Just have fun and keep talking with her, you'll be OK.
--Rick
2006-11-04 06:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open and honest and tell her. If she doesn't want to respect what you are asking her then she needs to go.
2006-11-04 06:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move fast to and she will tell you
2006-11-04 06:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her exactly that...be open and honest...
2006-11-04 06:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋