i dont know if i can believe him now. i did say i'd give him 3 mo. 2 show he gunna get divorce. so far nothing. this last wk he not called me like he been doing. he a trucker. i dont trust him. any advice? im 34 he 42.
2006-11-04 05:56:26 · 23 answers · asked by froggy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why should you trust him? How do you know he won't betray you like he did his current wife? Forget him.
2006-11-04 05:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry... he most likely will not leave his wife a divorce can take a year and he might lose half of everything. He might have a lot of kids that he wasn't going to tell you about. He might have also said the same thing to other women. A married trucker is the person you can trust the least. You need to find someone with a job where you can check on them. Someone single... and maybe not eight years older than you try six or less.
2006-11-04 14:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Nick M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi froggy,
I've been there and done that (and have the scars to prove it, just kidding). The statistics say that 1-2% of all extramarital affairs (EMAs) lead to marriage and I believe this is close to the truth. Also, if a guy is willing to cheat with you, he will cheat on you as well, no matter what he says to the contrary, (again, been there, done that).
Sorry to burst your bubble, but this guy is most likely using you for what he can get and will move on as soon as either a) he's tired of you/finds someone else who interests him more or b) his wife finds out about you two. Not a good thing in either case. IMHO it's much better (and emotionally healthier for you) to find a nice single guy whom you're compatible with so you can build a solid long term relationship on a foundation of trust and two way commitment.
Check out TOW - The Other Woman forum online for all kinds of EMA stories, you'll see what I mean about this.
Best wishes from bookyone :)
2006-11-04 14:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by bookyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't get involved with him. I'm going thru a marriage right now were I think my wife is cheating on me. I would never get involved with someone that is already married. It really makes me mad to know that people still cheat on other people. I feel that if someone is going to cheat, let it be in a boyfriend/girlfriend type of deal. Not when it involves family. I won't stay with him. Your going to be worried that he will leave you later down the road for someone else. Good luck.
2006-11-04 14:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by beachdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust a man that would leave his own wife for another woman, simply because when a man and a woman are married, it's supposed to be in sickness,health,richer,poorer,till death do they part- no way,'Hose.
Unless his wife were very abusive to him,I wouldn't trust him as far as could throw him, WITH powered armor,which doesn't even exist yet anyway.
2006-11-04 14:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your place I'd end the relationship. He didn't mention being married before you got involved, so he nothing but a scummy cheater, who put YOU in the position of being the "other woman". He isn't worth anything. I'd also make sure his wife knows he has been seeing you.
2006-11-04 14:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be messing with a married man anyway. He is cheating with you, what makes you think your special enough that he won't cheat on you. If he is a trucker driver it makes it easy for him to say anything and do something completely different.
2006-11-04 13:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by neinmom2one 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a man who knows how men think ... he's lying through his teeth about everything with the possible exception of being married with children. He won't leave her for you, he just wants to have sex with you for as long as he can get away with it. Stringing you along like this is just part of his power trip, and you need to have the gumption to tell him to set himself on fire and get lost.
2006-11-04 13:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, it sounds like he may be seeing what is out there. I would not hold you breath! You said you would give him time - you can if you want. BUT don't count on it....
Especially since only after one month he slowed down on calling you....maybe he is trying to patch things up with the wife.....
sorry......
2006-11-04 13:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister becareful of people like that, they will promised you heaven and earth when they have not reach there, but immidiately they reach there, you turn to another girl.
if he promised to marry you after being divorce from his present wife, ask him how many wives has he divorce like that,
or you can investigate him sister before you invest your life with him.
good luck to you
2006-11-04 14:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by phemmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because your screen name is froggy it doesnt mean you have toad brains right. you are obviously just another girl he's using for sex because his wife cant satisfy him anymore. if you enjoy being a mistress then hold on but if you are a no nonsense woman like me you just gonna leave him and his family alone until he figures out what he wants or better still get someone else!
2006-11-04 14:03:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋