My gf was molested by my friend(he's not my friend now), she's okay but now she wants absolutely to physical contact. She is a 5'1 gymnast who used to love to be held and touched. I used to be able to walk up behind her and pick her up cuz she's so light, but now she is talking about quitting gymnastics cuz her female coach keeps asking is everythings all right. She won't even let her family hug her. If a person bumps her in the hall at school she gets all uneasy. What can I do to help?? When will she (if ever) be the same again?? She blames herself. When she cries I go to hold her and she pulls away. What can I do To help? She absolutely does NOT want to report it. I will stand behind her no matter what she decides but What can I do to help.
2006-11-04 05:55:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can I make her more comfortable with me? Does she Blame me?? Why doesn't she trust anyone anymore??(Sorry, but I have never had that happen so I don't know)
2006-11-04 05:57:23 · update #1
Her family knows as do I but will she ever be normal again??
2006-11-04 06:02:50 · update #2
Does she think it was my fault or something eventhough she says it's hers?? I know its not but she won't listen. Why is she so afraid??
2006-11-04 06:05:25 · update #3
Something like being molested can scar you. You will think about it everyday. Thinking that you were forced to do something that even resisting didn't help. She will probably be like this for awhile and you need to let her know that you are there for her. You have to report that guy because if you don't he will do it again to some other girl. Making others go through what your girlfriend is going through. Does her family know? If not, tell them because she needs to feel that she has control over herself and who touches her. If they know, they know not to force a hug on her or touch her.
2006-11-04 06:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by someone ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 07:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to get her to tell at least her family, you need to tell her that that sick perv needs to go away for what he did. She needs to let someone know. As for that guy you let me know where he is I will go "talk" some sense into him! I hate it when someone gets hurt! You have got to get her to let her parents or family member know. She needs to let it out somehow. You might be able to talk somesense into her. I am here (even though I don't know you or her or the guy) let me know If you need any help. Just get her to tell someone.
2006-11-04 06:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to talk to someone...therapy, etc....i doubt she'll be able to get over this trauma by herself. keep being understanding and supportive..
2006-11-04 06:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is you.
2006-11-04 05:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Mara D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋